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60 results (expanded search) for "سلوك متكرر"
Parenting
Name the Need Behind the Behavior
Every difficult behavior hides an unmet need — practice the question that reveals it instead of judging it.
Professional
SBI Model
Phrase every feedback in 3 sentences: situation, specific behavior, impact — no interpretation.
Parenting
Distinguishing Meltdown from Tantrum — and Responding Accordingly
A tantrum aims to get something; a sensory meltdown is a total loss of control — each requires a completely different response.
Digital & AI
Replace Scroll with Substitute Behavior
Each scroll-urge, execute pre-defined substitute (10 breath cycles, drink water, 5 squats).
Psychological
Behavioral Experiment for a Prediction
Turn your anxious prediction into a testable hypothesis, then act and collect data.
Psychological
Daily Behavioral Activation
In depression, exit "wait until I feel better" to "do then feel".
Administrative
RACI Matrix per Recurring Decision
For each recurring decision specify Responsible, Accountable, Consulted, Informed — leave no column empty.
Parenting
Collaborative Problem Solving
Instead of imposing a fix, collaborate with your child to solve concerns of both — Ross Greene method.
Social
Validate Feelings
Say: "your feelings make sense" — even if you disagree with behavior.
Leadership
Build SBI Feedback for Reports
Frame feedback in 3 sentences: Situation, Behavior, Impact — strips bias, refocuses on behavior.
Psychological
Environment Redesign
Environment shapes habits — redesign it before demanding willpower.
Professional
SBI Feedback Model
Deliver effective feedback in 3 parts (Situation—Behavior—Impact) so the other person hears you without defensiveness.
Professional
Identity Goals
Instead of "I want to run a marathon", say "I'm a runner" — identity drives behavior.
Social
DESC Script for a Tough Conversation
Write four sentences: Describe the behavior, Express the impact, Specify the change, Consequences.
Administrative
Post-Delegation SBI Feedback
After any delegated task completes, deliver feedback in Situation-Behavior-Impact format.
Psychological
Personal Values Tree
Values are roots, behaviors are leaves — draw your tree.
Leadership
Handling a Toxic High-Performer
When a member delivers excellent results but destroys team morale, separate performance from behavior via a clear standard and a direct honest conversation.
Psychological
Opposite Action
When your emotion doesn't serve the situation, do the opposite of what it pushes you to.
Professional
Praise Specificity Drill
Replace vague "good job" with specific praise describing: what he did, impact, why it matters.
Professional
Building STAR Interview Stories
Prepare three STAR stories (Situation—Task—Action—Result) that cover 80% of behavioral interview questions.
Professional
Start-Stop-Continue Self
Each month, write 3 behaviors to start, 3 to stop, 3 to continue.
Leadership
Team Values Dialogue
A frank 1-hour discussion: what 5 values do we want to work by, and what behaviors express them?
Leadership
Feedforward Coaching
Instead of feedback on the past, ask reports for future suggestions — less defensiveness, higher application.
Psychological
ACCEPTS for Constructive Distraction
Seven distraction routes giving you minutes of safe survival until the wave passes.
Professional
Implementation Intentions
Phrase every goal as "if X happens, I will do Y" — doubles completion rate.
Administrative
Managing the Difficult Stakeholder
Before labeling someone "difficult", diagnose the specific type: are they anxious, ignored, or genuinely conflicted in interest?
Digital & AI
Distraction Journal
For 5 days, log every distraction: time, trigger, pre-feeling. Patterns emerge.
Digital & AI
Internal Trigger Map (Eyal)
Identify 5 feelings that make you open phone. Per feeling, alternative plan pre-touch.
Psychological
Graded Exposure Hierarchy
Rank your fears from least to most anxiety-provoking, then face one each week.
Psychological
Mindful Handwashing
Action you repeat 20x daily — turn into meditation in 30 sec.
Psychological
90-Second Wave
Every emotion is a chemical wave ending in 90 seconds — wait before responding.
Psychological
Chain Analysis
Track what happened before the blow-up, where the chain could have broken.
Psychological
Bed for Sleep Only
No food, no work, no phone in bed. Bed = sleep.
Psychological
Implementation Intention (If-Then)
"If X happens, I will do Y" — doubles to triples adherence.
Psychological
Habit Stacking
Link new habit to existing — "after established X, I'll do new Y".
Psychological
Counter-Statements
For each negative thought, frame 3 counter-statements with evidence.
Psychological
Turning the Mind
Acceptance isn't one decision — it's a recurring choice you make daily.
Psychological
Hourly Presence Bell
Every hour, bell reminds you to present 1 min — not meditate, just present.
Psychological
Hundred Returns
Every time mind wanders, return — meditation isn't stillness, it's return.
Psychological
Meaning Moments Log
Log moments where you felt deeper meaning — discover what matters.
Psychological
Alternative Life Scenario
Imagine life if you chose differently 10 yrs ago.
Professional
Website Blocking
Use Cold Turkey or Freedom to block distraction sites during work.
Professional
Return-to-Focus Counter
Log how many times you returned to task after distraction — learn from data.
Professional
Distraction Log
Log: what distracted, when, why — discover patterns.
Professional
Full Notification Detox
Turn off all phone notifications except calls and core messages.
Professional
Probe Final Price
Ask "is this your best?" 3 times — opponent lowers.
Professional
High Anchor Strategy
Open higher than expected — becomes anchor for negotiation.
Professional
Imaginary Audience Rehearsal
Rehearse as if audience in room — discover gaps.
Professional
Resume Bullets STAR
Convert 5 resume bullets from "duties" to Situation-Task-Action-Result outcomes.
Professional
Radical Candor 2x2
Sort your feedback on care personally × challenge directly — sweet spot: high in both.
Professional
360 Self-Audit
Each quarter, ask 6 people around you the same 3 open questions about your performance.
Professional
Process Goals
Don't target "$100K this year" — target "3 sales calls daily".
Professional
12-Week Year
Treat every 12 weeks as a full year — execute in 3 months what others take 12 months.
Professional
Perfect Day Vision
Describe a "perfect day" in detail, then engineer goals to repeat it more.
Professional
Read-Aloud Edit
Read draft aloud. Every stumble = sentence needing edit.
Professional
Letter From Wise Self
When tired, write a letter from your "self" at 80 to your "self" today.
Professional
Tiny Habit Stacking
Don't target "meditate 30 min" — target "one breath after coffee".
Social
The Generous Backstory
Invent at least three plausible reasons for a behavior that upset you, before you judge.
Social
The Graded Social Exposure Ladder
Build a 5-7 step ladder of social situations ordered from least to most anxiety, climb one rung per week.
Social
Specific Request
Instead of "be better", request "reply to my message within 24h".