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Specific Request

Instead of "be better", request "reply to my message within 24h".

15 min Advanced

Goal

Measurable not vague request.

Steps

  1. 1
    Identify actual want.
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Expected Outcome

Immediate
Clarity.

Evidence base

School: NVC

Founders: Marshall Rosenberg (2003)

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Frequently asked questions

How long does "Specific Request" take?
This exercise takes about 15 minutes, practiced with another person in a Inner dialogue format.
When will I notice the effect of "Specific Request"?
Clarity. In the short term: High likelihood of fulfillment.
Is "Specific Request" evidence-based?
Yes — it draws on NVC (Marshall Rosenberg (2003)). Rosenberg.
Is "Specific Request" suitable for beginners?
Its difficulty level is: Advanced. No external tools required — it can be practiced directly inside the app.

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