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Collaborative Problem Solving

Instead of imposing a fix, collaborate with your child to solve concerns of both — Ross Greene method.

20 min Advanced

Goal

Solve recurring challenging behaviors via three-step talk: empathy, share concerns, collaborate.

Steps

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Pick one recurring behavior (e.g., unfinished homework). Don't address mid-event — schedule a calm time.

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Expected Outcome

Immediate

The child says something he wouldn't under pressure: "I hate homework because the page intimidates me."

Evidence base

School: Collaborative & Proactive Solutions (CPS) — Ross Greene

Founders: Ross Greene (1998)

Ross Greene developed CPS at Harvard on the principle "kids do well when they can." Studies: 50% reduction in difficult behaviors within 16 weeks.

Frequently asked questions

How long does "Collaborative Problem Solving" take?

This exercise takes about 20 minutes, practiced with another person in a Inner dialogue format.

When will I notice the effect of "Collaborative Problem Solving"?

The child says something he wouldn't under pressure: "I hate homework because the page intimidates me." In the short term: Within a month, target behavior drops 60% — because the root cause was addressed.

Is "Collaborative Problem Solving" evidence-based?

Yes — it draws on Collaborative & Proactive Solutions (CPS) — Ross Greene (Ross Greene (1998)). Ross Greene developed CPS at Harvard on the principle "kids do well when they can." Studies: 50% reduction in difficult behaviors within 16 weeks.

Is "Collaborative Problem Solving" suitable for beginners?

Its difficulty level is: Advanced. No external tools required — it can be practiced directly inside the app.

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