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Social
Mentor vs Sponsor: The Distinction
Identify who is your mentor (teaches) vs sponsor (opens doors) — both crucial.
Professional
Building STAR Interview Stories
Prepare three STAR stories (Situation—Task—Action—Result) that cover 80% of behavioral interview questions.
Administrative
Exit-Interview Knowledge Capture
Before an employee leaves, dedicate a session separate from the formal exit interview to extract only their operational knowledge.
Professional
Stay Interview
Every 6 months with each report, ask: what keeps you here? What might make you leave?
Administrative
Inverted Pyramid (Minto)
Lead with conclusion first, then supporting arguments, then details — never the reverse.
Leadership
Stay Interview
30 min with a top performer, 5 questions on "why you stay and why you might leave" before they actually consider leaving.
Leadership
Coaching for Confidence vs. Coaching for Competence
First diagnose: does the person lack an actual skill (competence), or have it but not trust using it (confidence)? The treatment is entirely different for each.
Leadership
Sponsorship vs. Mentorship for Underrepresented Talent
Mentorship means giving advice in the room; sponsorship means saying their name in rooms they don't attend — deliberately practice the latter, not just the former.
Administrative
Tacit Knowledge Extraction Interview
Ask the expert: "what do you notice that a beginner wouldn't?" — this extracts what no manual ever captures.
Psychological
Eulogy Writing
Write what you wish said at your funeral — discover deep values.
Psychological
Willingness vs Willfulness
Willingness to accept reality as is, not willfulness rejecting it — subtle but powerful.
Professional
Exit Interview Crafting
When resigning, write 3 highly constructive notes you leave behind — to make a difference.
Social
Direct vs Indirect: The Request Matrix
Before asking a high-context colleague for something, reshape your direct ask into a polite hint.
Parenting
Recognizing Teen Depression vs. Normal Moodiness
Learn to distinguish normal teen mood swings from depression signs requiring professional intervention.
Parenting
Finding Your Parent Community — Breaking Isolation
Parent isolation is the most hidden burden of special needs — actively seek parents who understand without explanation.
Digital & AI
Niche-Down vs Broad
Writer "about everything" = no one follows. Narrow to specific point, expand later.
Digital & AI
Resolving Authentic Voice vs. Algorithm-Chasing Tension
Before any post, ask: "am I writing this because I believe it, or because I think the algorithm favors it?" — constant tension drains content of its honesty.
Psychological
ABC Model Map
Event (A) → Belief (B) → Consequence (C): break the assumption that events cause emotions directly.
Professional
Real-Time Not Saved
Don't hoard feedback until annual review — give within 24 hours of event.
Psychological
Funeral Visualization
At your funeral in 50 years, what do you wish people said? Start it today.
Professional
Concession Ledger
Log every concession given and received — balance.
Psychological
Box Breathing 4-4-4-4
Four equal-length breath segments to regulate your nervous system in five minutes.
Psychological
Evidence For-Against Dialogue
Put your negative thought on trial: what's the evidence for and against? Then judge.
Psychological
Values vs Goals Sort
Goals end; values are perpetual direction — confusing them loses you.
Psychological
Struggle Switch
Imagine an inner switch — when on, suffering doubles. Can you leave it off?
Psychological
Raisin Eating Meditation
Eat one raisin with full awareness — discover a world in a particle.
Psychological
Willingness vs Willfulness
Willingness accepts what is, willfulness rejects — which do you pick?
Psychological
Pain Mindfulness
Pain + resistance = suffering. Pain - resistance = just pain.
Professional
Resume Bullets STAR
Convert 5 resume bullets from "duties" to Situation-Task-Action-Result outcomes.
Professional
Internal Application Prep
Before applying to an internal role, schedule a 20-min exploration chat with the target team's manager.
Professional
Side Project Portfolio
Create simple page showcasing 3 personal side projects — sells your competence beyond resume.
Professional
Risk-Probability Matrix
Place each risk on 2x2: probability × impact — treat high/high first.
Professional
Generous Intro Habit
Each month, introduce 5 pairs from your network — you become the hub.
Social
Three-Sentence Reflective Listening
After hearing your partner, reflect back three sentences: content, feeling, and underlying value.
Social
Shared Need Question
Deep in conflict, ask: "What is the shared need we are both trying to meet?"
Social
5-Friends Audit
Audit your closest 5 via a relationship grid: who adds, who drains, who mirrors your values.
Administrative
The 5-Level Delegation Ladder
For each task, set the autonomy level (1: tell me before → 5: decide alone).
Leadership
Value Proposition Canvas
Precise fit between what the customer truly needs and what your product offers across six boxes.
Leadership
Jobs-to-be-Done
Customer doesn't buy your product. They "hire" it for a job in their life. Discover the real job.
Leadership
The Coaching vs. Mentoring Distinction in Practice
Before any development conversation, ask yourself: will I ask questions (coaching) or share my experience (mentoring)? Mixing them fails both.
Digital & AI
3-Sentence Email
Personal rule: no email longer than 3 sentences. Else = call or meet.
Digital & AI
Quarterly App Audit
Every 3 months, ask per app: "Does it earn its place on my phone?" — delete without hesitation.
Digital & AI
In-Person Priority Over Digital
For every 3 important digital chats with someone, schedule one real meeting.
Digital & AI
Audience Trust Over Reach
1,000 who trust you > 100,000 who follow. Build trust, numbers follow.
Digital & AI
Spaced Repetition (Anki)
Anki + 20 cards daily = 95%+ lifelong retention. Memory is craft, not gift.
Digital & AI
Consistent Bio Across Platforms
Review your short bio on every platform you use — it should tell the same story, not conflicting narratives that confuse whoever looks you up.
Digital & AI
One-Platform-Only Experiment
For 2 weeks, pick just one social platform to use, and temporarily delete the rest — measure the difference in time and mental energy.
Psychological
Funeral Visualization
Hear what you wish would be said of you in 50 years to learn what matters today.
Psychological
Mind-Reading Challenge
You assume what others think of you — but never asked.
Psychological
Self-Eulogy Writing
Write your eulogy as if delivered for you — discover deep values.
Professional
SBI Feedback Model
Deliver effective feedback in 3 parts (Situation—Behavior—Impact) so the other person hears you without defensiveness.
Social
Reverse Mentorship
Mentor a younger person in new tech/culture, and learn from them in return.
Administrative
Scope-Creep Guardrail
For every new addition request mid-project, apply one rule: it enters in exchange for something leaving, or waits for the next release.
Leadership
Inclusive Hiring Panel Design
Deliberately (not accidentally) diversify the interview panel and define written evaluation criteria before seeing any candidate — consistency protects against individual bias.
Digital & AI
Real (Not Vanity) LinkedIn Audit
LinkedIn measured by "who contacted with opportunity", not followers or likes.
Psychological
Outsider Witness Map
Ask 3 who know you to tell you "who you are in their eyes" — discover forgotten self.
Administrative
Non-Delegatable Task List
Explicitly write a list of 3-5 tasks you never delegate, and delegate everything else without hesitation.
Administrative
Pre-Mortem Protocol
Imagine the project failed entirely a year from now; list 7 plausible reasons before starting.
Leadership
One-Team-One-Dream Session
A 3-hour session that breaks silos between teams and unites them around a goal larger than their own department.
Leadership
Trust Equation
Trust = (Credibility + Reliability + Intimacy) ÷ Self-Orientation. Rate each component with 5 people.