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60 results (expanded search) for "قياس ذاتي"
Psychological
Self-Compassion Mantras
3 short phrases to memorize for self-collapse moments.
Leadership
Defining the North Star Metric
Pick one metric that measures the value delivered to your customer, anchoring every decision to its success.
Digital & AI
Monthly Self-Search
Each month's start, search your name on Google and review the first 3 result pages.
Psychological
Self Bilateral Stimulation
Tap thighs alternately (right, left) 30 sec — soothes small trauma.
Professional
360 Self-Audit
Each quarter, ask 6 people around you the same 3 open questions about your performance.
Social
Self-Compassion Break
In suffering, apply Neff's 3 steps: acknowledge, common humanity, self-kindness.
Digital & AI
Self-Critique: Review Your Own Answer
After the model answers, ask it to critique its own answer and improve it before final delivery.
Psychological
Symbolic Self-Portrait
Draw self as symbol/animal/scene — discover self unconsciously.
Psychological
Self-Eulogy Writing
Write your eulogy as if delivered for you — discover deep values.
Professional
Self-Recorded Rehearsal
Record yourself rehearsing, then watch — discover unseen.
Professional
Self-Compassion Break
On failure, 3 sentences: "this is suffering. Suffering is human. I treat self kindly".
Administrative
Video Standard Operating Procedure
Record a one-hour screen video of someone doing the task instead of writing 15 pages nobody reads.
Administrative
Define the North Star Metric
One number summarizing your product's value to customer — every decision serves it.
Leadership
Kill the Company: Self-Disruption Exercise
Gather team, ask: "How could you destroy our company in 5 yrs?". Answers = vulnerabilities to fix before a competitor does.
Leadership
Pay-Equity Self-Audit for Managers
Before waiting for an official HR audit, compare your team's pay yourself by role and experience — imbalances are discovered faster from the inside.
Parenting
Building the Child's Own Self-Advocacy Skill
Teach your child to explain his own needs gradually — instead of remaining his only voice forever.
Digital & AI
Bio Voice Consistency
Your bio across platforms says same thing, same tone, same values. Even at different lengths.
Leadership
Trust Equation
Trust = (Credibility + Reliability + Intimacy) ÷ Self-Orientation. Rate each component with 5 people.
Professional
Skills-Gap Audit
Compare your skills to a dream job's requirements, identify 3 gaps to close in 90 days.
Leadership
Weekly Autonomy Test
5 questions every Friday: did reports decide without me? If not, why?
Psychological
Eulogy Writing
Write what you wish said at your funeral — discover deep values.
Psychological
Self Co-Regulation
Breathe with another body (partner or animal) — regulates nervous system.
Professional
Hemingway-Style Self-Edit
Edit draft Hemingway-style: short sentences, simple words, no flashy adverbs.
Social
Avoid Self-Hijack
When you feel "similar story" hijacking, resist — don't interrupt with yours.
Psychological
Flexible Perfectionism Ruler
Define "good enough" upfront before starting the task.
Psychological
Universalization Question
Your negative thought — if someone else thought it, would you agree?
Psychological
Letter from Past Self
Imagine self 10 yrs ago writing now — discover progress.
Professional
Return-to-Focus Counter
Log how many times you returned to task after distraction — learn from data.
Professional
Resume Bullets STAR
Convert 5 resume bullets from "duties" to Situation-Task-Action-Result outcomes.
Leadership
Four-Dimensional Energy Portfolio
Your energy = 4 dimensions: physical, mental, emotional, spiritual. Rate 1-10 and plan for weakest.
Digital & AI
One-Platform-Only Experiment
For 2 weeks, pick just one social platform to use, and temporarily delete the rest — measure the difference in time and mental energy.
Digital & AI
Explicit Constraints Beat Guidance
"Max 80 words, don't use 'innovative', start with imperative" beats "make it short and clear".
Professional
Quarterly OKRs
Each quarter, set 3 Objectives each with 3 measurable Key Results.
Social
Team Psychological-Safety Check
Anonymously ask Edmondson's three questions to score your team's psychological safety.
Administrative
12-Week Year Quarterly Review
Treat every 12 weeks as a full year with goals, measures, and review rhythm.
Leadership
Building Psychological Safety on Edmondson's Model
Teams with high psychological safety perform 4x better. This exercise measures and raises it in your team.
Psychological
One Committed Action
Define one action today expressing a value, even if opposing thoughts show up.
Administrative
SMART Goal Rewrite
Turn a vague goal into a specific, measurable, time-bound formulation.
Administrative
Vanity Metric Audit
Vanity metric always grows and unaffected by decisions — harmful because feels like success.
Leadership
Greenleaf's 10 Principles of Servant Leadership
Self-rate on Robert Greenleaf's 10 classic principles. Where's the gap between what you say and what you do?
Parenting
Releasing Comparison With Other Parents and Kids
Your child's journey isn't a race against the neighbors' kids — practice cutting the comparison thread at its root.
Psychological
Emotion Thermometer
Measure emotion daily 0-10 — discover pattern and triggers.
Psychological
Spot the Ten Cognitive Distortions
Run your current thought through the list of ten to pinpoint exactly which mental trap caught you.
Psychological
Socratic Dialogue with a Stubborn Thought
Interrogate your thought with seven Socratic questions until it loses automatic authority.
Psychological
ACCEPTS for Constructive Distraction
Seven distraction routes giving you minutes of safe survival until the wave passes.
Psychological
Compassionate Self-Talk
Imagine a friend in the same situation — what would you tell them? Tell yourself.
Psychological
Self-Compassion Friend Letter
Write what your dearest friend would say in your worst moment.
Psychological
Soothing Self-Touch
Place hand on heart or cheek 2 min — your body knows kindness.
Psychological
Loving-Kindness for Self
Repeat 4 wishes to yourself sincerely: peace, health, happiness, kindness.
Psychological
Stoic Evening Review
Every night 5 min: what did I do well, what wrong, what to improve?
Psychological
Window of Tolerance Map
Each has tolerance window — below it numbness, above it explosion. Map yours.
Professional
SBI Model
Phrase every feedback in 3 sentences: situation, specific behavior, impact — no interpretation.
Professional
Net Worth Tracking
First Saturday monthly, compute: assets − debts = net worth. Track curve.
Professional
Start-Stop-Continue Self
Each month, write 3 behaviors to start, 3 to stop, 3 to continue.
Social
Build an I-Statement in Four Parts
Frame your stance as: "When [behavior] I feel [feeling] because I need [value] and I request [ask]".
Social
Specific Request
Instead of "be better", request "reply to my message within 24h".
Social
Positive Assertion
Praise self publicly when deserved: "I did well" — breaks toxic humility.
Administrative
Audit of "Only-Me" Tasks
Log every task you do for a full week, then tag: delegable / non-delegable.
Leadership
Theory of Change: From Activity to Impact
Draw a logical chain: inputs → activities → outputs → outcomes → long-term impact.
Leadership
Listening Before Advising: The 3:1 Rule
In every leadership conversation, listen 3 minutes for every 1 you speak. Advice after understanding, not before.