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Leadership
CCL's 70-20-10 Development Model
Real development: 70% from hard assignments, 20% from relationships, 10% from training. Focus on the 70.
Professional
Skills-Gap Audit
Compare your skills to a dream job's requirements, identify 3 gaps to close in 90 days.
Professional
Start-Stop-Continue Self
Each month, write 3 behaviors to start, 3 to stop, 3 to continue.
Leadership
The Coaching vs. Mentoring Distinction in Practice
Before any development conversation, ask yourself: will I ask questions (coaching) or share my experience (mentoring)? Mixing them fails both.
Psychological
Daily Activities Meditation
Turn repeating task (dishwashing) into meditation.
Professional
Color-Coded Tasks
Color per type — reveals imbalance.
Leadership
GROW Model for Coaching Conversations
A 30-min conversation with a report: Goal, Reality, Options, Will — to grow their thinking instead of giving answers.
Leadership
Bank of 10 Powerful Questions
Memorize 10 coaching questions that open any conversation, replacing answers 80% of the time.
Leadership
Feedforward Coaching
Instead of feedback on the past, ask reports for future suggestions — less defensiveness, higher application.
Leadership
Mini 360 Feedback
Ask 8 people around you 3 questions: what do I do well? what should I stop? what would you stop me from doing if you saw?
Leadership
Diagnosing Your Reaction to Feedback
3 triggers reject valid feedback: Truth, Relationship, Identity. Know which fires in you.
Leadership
Designing an Effective Stretch Assignment
Task 20% bigger than employee's current ability. Scares 30%, fails 30%, succeeds 40%. Difficult balance.
Professional
Personal Career SWOT
Map your career strengths, weaknesses, opportunities, and threats in 30 minutes — and see your next move clearly.
Professional
SBI Feedback Model
Deliver effective feedback in 3 parts (Situation—Behavior—Impact) so the other person hears you without defensiveness.
Professional
Cost-of-Delay Calc
For each delayed decision, compute weekly cost of delay financially or in opportunity.
Social
The Precise Mentor Request
Do not ask "will you be my mentor?". Ask "30 minutes on one specific question" and repeat in a month if it works.
Administrative
Team Skill Matrix
Draw a table: rows = team members, columns = skills, cells = competence 1-4.
Administrative
Post-Delegation SBI Feedback
After any delegated task completes, deliver feedback in Situation-Behavior-Impact format.
Administrative
Quarterly Delegation Level-Up
Every 90 days, raise each delegated task one rung on the delegation ladder.
Administrative
"Who Else Could?" Question
Every time you catch yourself doing a task, ask: who else? And why didn't they?
Administrative
After-Action Review (AAR)
After each phase: what happened? What did we expect? Why the gap? How do we learn?
Administrative
Simplified 7-Milestone Gantt
A 7-milestone Gantt on one page — visible, instantly grokkable.
Leadership
5 Dysfunctions of a Team Audit (Lencioni)
Audit your team across five layered levels: trust, conflict, commitment, accountability, results.
Leadership
Tuckman Stages Identification
Identify which of 5 stages your team is in (forming, storming, norming, performing, adjourning) to choose the right intervention.
Leadership
Strengths Team Map
Identify top 5 strengths per member, plot them on a map, discover gaps and duplications.
Leadership
Finding a Mentor Practically
Instead of "will you be my mentor?", request a specific 30-min meeting around one question.
Leadership
Multiplier vs. Diminisher Diagnosis
Determine if you multiply your team's intelligence or drain it via 5 specific leader behaviors.
Leadership
Build SBI Feedback for Reports
Frame feedback in 3 sentences: Situation, Behavior, Impact — strips bias, refocuses on behavior.
Leadership
Trust Equation
Trust = (Credibility + Reliability + Intimacy) ÷ Self-Orientation. Rate each component with 5 people.
Leadership
Ideal Team Player Diagnosis
3 virtues (Humble, Hungry, Smart) for ideal team player. Diagnose your team against them.
Leadership
Stop-Start-Continue Team Review
45 min per quarter: what to stop, start, continue. Simplest team evolution tool.
Leadership
Weekly Autonomy Test
5 questions every Friday: did reports decide without me? If not, why?
Leadership
Decision Journal
Per big leadership decision: your mental state, info, prediction, actual outcome. Learn from mistakes.
Leadership
Building Executive Presence
3 pillars: gravitas, communication, appearance — rate yourself and target the weakest.
Leadership
Leadership Identity Statement
Complete "I'm a leader who…" 7 times without mentioning your job title. Identity is deeper than role.
Leadership
Greenleaf's 10 Principles of Servant Leadership
Self-rate on Robert Greenleaf's 10 classic principles. Where's the gap between what you say and what you do?
Leadership
Listening Before Advising: The 3:1 Rule
In every leadership conversation, listen 3 minutes for every 1 you speak. Advice after understanding, not before.
Leadership
Jobs-to-be-Done
Customer doesn't buy your product. They "hire" it for a job in their life. Discover the real job.
Leadership
Hersey & Blanchard's Situational Leadership
Direction level must match employee's maturity on the task. 4 styles, pick right one per case.
Leadership
Monthly Sponsorship List
Each month, identify 3 employees you'll name in rooms they don't enter. Sponsorship is system, not event.
Leadership
Coaching for Confidence vs. Coaching for Competence
First diagnose: does the person lack an actual skill (competence), or have it but not trust using it (confidence)? The treatment is entirely different for each.
Leadership
Adaptive Leadership Retrospective
After leading a major adaptive change, ask 4 questions revealing your real impact as a leader, not just the project's surface success.
Leadership
Pretotyping: Test Idea Before Building
Before building full product, test with "fake prototype" (10× simpler than MVP). Saves months + tens of thousands.
Psychological
Spot the Ten Cognitive Distortions
Run your current thought through the list of ten to pinpoint exactly which mental trap caught you.
Psychological
Socratic Dialogue with a Stubborn Thought
Interrogate your thought with seven Socratic questions until it loses automatic authority.
Psychological
Wise Mind: Logic Meets Emotion
Breathe ten times and find the point between your emotional and logical minds.
Psychological
Loving-Kindness for Self
Repeat 4 wishes to yourself sincerely: peace, health, happiness, kindness.
Psychological
Emotion Description Without Judgment
Name feeling (sad, angry) — without "I'm bad" or "this is wrong".
Psychological
Beauty Appreciation
In your day, pause at 3 beauty moments — new pleasure forms.
Administrative
OODA Loop: Observe-Orient-Decide-Act
In dynamic problems, cycle OODA faster than the adversary.
Administrative
No-Code First, Then Code
Before requesting a developer to automate a process, trial it with a no-code tool for two weeks first — if it works, you saved months.
Leadership
Written vs. Verbal Channel Selection for Leaders
Before sending any leadership message, ask: does this content need a live tone of voice, or the precision of written text?
Leadership
Succession-Readiness Team Mapping
For every critical role on your team, ask: if its holder vanished tomorrow for a month, who could cover? Map the gaps and build a plan to close them.
Leadership
"Getting on the Balcony": The Observation Technique
Mid-meeting or mid-conflict, mentally step back and imagine watching from above — who's speaking? who's avoiding? what's the real pattern?
Leadership
Holding Steady Under Stakeholder Pressure
When stakeholders pressure you to abandon a necessary change because it's "uncomfortable", distinguish pressure that warrants stopping from pressure that's just expected resistance to change.
Parenting
My Anxiety vs. My Child's Actual Risk
Before you stop your child, separate your personal anxiety from the actually measured risk of the situation.
Parenting
Holding "Big Feelings"
Be the "big vessel" that contains your child's feelings without breaking — Becky Kennedy.
Parenting
Specific Praise Over Generic
Instead of "great job," describe exactly what he did — "I love how you split the problem into two steps."
Parenting
Language-Rich Environment
Aim for 21,000 words a day with your child — guarding against the "30-million-word gap."
Parenting
Observing Sensitive Periods
Learn to spot Montessori "sensitive periods" (order, language, movement, senses) so you offer the right environment at the right time.