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Leadership
CCL's 70-20-10 Development Model
Real development: 70% from hard assignments, 20% from relationships, 10% from training. Focus on the 70.
Parenting
Sex & Relationships with Honest Dialogue
Instead of "one awkward talk," 50 short talks across adolescence. That's how relational competence is built.
Professional
Weak Ties Activation
Opportunities come from acquaintances not friends — activate 20 weak ties this month.
Professional
Annual Relationship Audit
Each December, classify 50 people: adds/drains/neutral — adjust your time.
Leadership
Healing Fractured Relationships in the Team
Two relationships on your team are strained, productivity erodes. Servant leader's task: aid healing, not ignore.
Parenting
Consent and Healthy Relationships Talk
Talk about consent and respect in relationships before your teen needs the information, not after a crisis.
Leadership
Finding a Mentor Practically
Instead of "will you be my mentor?", request a specific 30-min meeting around one question.
Leadership
Trust Equation
Trust = (Credibility + Reliability + Intimacy) ÷ Self-Orientation. Rate each component with 5 people.
Professional
Skills-Gap Audit
Compare your skills to a dream job's requirements, identify 3 gaps to close in 90 days.
Professional
Start-Stop-Continue Self
Each month, write 3 behaviors to start, 3 to stop, 3 to continue.
Leadership
The Coaching vs. Mentoring Distinction in Practice
Before any development conversation, ask yourself: will I ask questions (coaching) or share my experience (mentoring)? Mixing them fails both.
Psychological
Daily Activities Meditation
Turn repeating task (dishwashing) into meditation.
Professional
Color-Coded Tasks
Color per type — reveals imbalance.
Leadership
GROW Model for Coaching Conversations
A 30-min conversation with a report: Goal, Reality, Options, Will — to grow their thinking instead of giving answers.
Leadership
Bank of 10 Powerful Questions
Memorize 10 coaching questions that open any conversation, replacing answers 80% of the time.
Leadership
Feedforward Coaching
Instead of feedback on the past, ask reports for future suggestions — less defensiveness, higher application.
Leadership
Mini 360 Feedback
Ask 8 people around you 3 questions: what do I do well? what should I stop? what would you stop me from doing if you saw?
Leadership
Diagnosing Your Reaction to Feedback
3 triggers reject valid feedback: Truth, Relationship, Identity. Know which fires in you.
Leadership
Designing an Effective Stretch Assignment
Task 20% bigger than employee's current ability. Scares 30%, fails 30%, succeeds 40%. Difficult balance.
Professional
Personal CRM
Create sheet of your 100 key relationships, last contact, next planned.
Leadership
The Pre-Wire: Informal Heads-Up Before Formal Announcements
Before any impactful formal announcement, give key stakeholders a private individual heads-up so they're never blindsided publicly.
Psychological
DEAR MAN for Effective Asking
Seven elements that turn a confused request into a clear respectful message that can be refused without breaking the relationship.
Psychological
Mind-Reading Challenge
You assume what others think of you — but never asked.
Psychological
Willingness vs Willfulness
Willingness accepts what is, willfulness rejects — which do you pick?
Professional
Personal Career SWOT
Map your career strengths, weaknesses, opportunities, and threats in 30 minutes — and see your next move clearly.
Professional
SBI Feedback Model
Deliver effective feedback in 3 parts (Situation—Behavior—Impact) so the other person hears you without defensiveness.
Professional
Value-First Outreach Message
Open outreach with concrete value you offer (an article, opportunity, intro) before any ask — response rates rise 5x.
Professional
Graceful Exit Plan
Define how to exit failed negotiation without burning bridges.
Professional
Cost-of-Delay Calc
For each delayed decision, compute weekly cost of delay financially or in opportunity.
Professional
Opportunity Cost Audit
For each "yes" this week, write the implicit "no" that came with it.
Social
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Five Minutes of Full-Attention Listening
Give the other person five full minutes of attention with no interruption or advice, then summarize what you heard.
Social
Five-Layer Boundary Map
Map your boundaries across five layers (physical, emotional, time, material, digital) on a single page.
Social
Three-Sentence Reflective Listening
After hearing your partner, reflect back three sentences: content, feeling, and underlying value.
Social
Build an I-Statement in Four Parts
Frame your stance as: "When [behavior] I feel [feeling] because I need [value] and I request [ask]".
Social
Broken Record for Repeated Pressure
Repeat the same refusal in the same words calmly, no matter how the other person reshapes the pressure.
Social
The Apology-Free No
Say no in three sentences: thanks, refusal, closing — with no "sorry" or justification.
Social
Two-Chair Perspective Switch
Sit in your chair, then mentally move to the other person's chair and retell the situation from their view.
Social
Validate the Feeling Before Advice
Name your speaker's feeling and confirm it is reasonable, before you propose any solution.
Social
The Ready-No Sentence
Memorize one 7-word refusal sentence and rehearse it until it emerges automatically under pressure.
Social
One Specific Appreciation per Day
Each day, tell one person about a specific act they did or a precise quality — no "you are great".
Social
The Precise Mentor Request
Do not ask "will you be my mentor?". Ask "30 minutes on one specific question" and repeat in a month if it works.
Social
Monthly No-Occasion Spontaneous Meet
Call a friend with no reason once a month and suggest a meet within the next 12 hours.
Social
Broken Record
When pressured to retract, repeat request calmly same words — don't explain more.
Social
No Without Apology
Say "no, I can't" — complete sentence. No explanation, no apology.
Administrative
Team Skill Matrix
Draw a table: rows = team members, columns = skills, cells = competence 1-4.
Administrative
Post-Delegation SBI Feedback
After any delegated task completes, deliver feedback in Situation-Behavior-Impact format.
Administrative
Quarterly Delegation Level-Up
Every 90 days, raise each delegated task one rung on the delegation ladder.
Administrative
"Who Else Could?" Question
Every time you catch yourself doing a task, ask: who else? And why didn't they?
Administrative
After-Action Review (AAR)
After each phase: what happened? What did we expect? Why the gap? How do we learn?
Administrative
Simplified 7-Milestone Gantt
A 7-milestone Gantt on one page — visible, instantly grokkable.
Leadership
5 Dysfunctions of a Team Audit (Lencioni)
Audit your team across five layered levels: trust, conflict, commitment, accountability, results.
Leadership
Tuckman Stages Identification
Identify which of 5 stages your team is in (forming, storming, norming, performing, adjourning) to choose the right intervention.
Leadership
Strengths Team Map
Identify top 5 strengths per member, plot them on a map, discover gaps and duplications.
Leadership
Multiplier vs. Diminisher Diagnosis
Determine if you multiply your team's intelligence or drain it via 5 specific leader behaviors.
Leadership
Designing the Weekly 1-1
30 weekly minutes with each direct report, following 3 questions only: what, how, where stuck.
Leadership
Build SBI Feedback for Reports
Frame feedback in 3 sentences: Situation, Behavior, Impact — strips bias, refocuses on behavior.
Leadership
Ideal Team Player Diagnosis
3 virtues (Humble, Hungry, Smart) for ideal team player. Diagnose your team against them.
Leadership
Stop-Start-Continue Team Review
45 min per quarter: what to stop, start, continue. Simplest team evolution tool.
Leadership
Weekly Autonomy Test
5 questions every Friday: did reports decide without me? If not, why?
Leadership
Decision Journal
Per big leadership decision: your mental state, info, prediction, actual outcome. Learn from mistakes.