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Social
DESC Script
In tough confrontation: Describe-Express-Specify-Consequence — four sentences resolve.
Administrative
Zero-Based Org-Chart Review
Draw the org chart you'd want to hit your upcoming goals, then compare it to what actually exists today.
Parenting
Side-by-Side Conversation
With teens, shared activity opens dialogue more than face-to-face sitting.
Professional
Difficult Feedback Rehearsal
Before tough talk, role-play as recipient and respond to your script — uncover blow-up points.
Leadership
Anatomy of a Difficult Conversation (Stone & Heen)
3 conversations within every difficult one: "what happened", "feelings", "identity". Separate them and succeed.
Psychological
Socratic Dialogue with a Stubborn Thought
Interrogate your thought with seven Socratic questions until it loses automatic authority.
Social
Bridging the Generational Communication Gap
When talking across generations (a parent, a teen), switch to their preferred channel, not yours.
Administrative
Managing the Difficult Stakeholder
Before labeling someone "difficult", diagnose the specific type: are they anxious, ignored, or genuinely conflicted in interest?
Parenting
Dialogic Reading
Instead of you reading and him listening, make reading a conversation — ask, listen, extend, repeat.
Professional
Self-1 vs Self-2
Self-1 (critic) sabotages Self-2 (doer) — watch inner dialogue during performance.
Leadership
Mastering Crucial Conversations (Patterson)
3 conditions for crucial conversations: high stakes, opposing opinions, strong emotion — use 7 skills to succeed.
Professional
Pyramid Principle
Start with conclusion, then 3 arguments, then details per argument — top-down.
Social
Avoid Self-Hijack
When you feel "similar story" hijacking, resist — don't interrupt with yours.
Social
Bridging Small Talk to Real Talk
Use one "bridge" question to move dialogue from the surface (weather) to a real shared thread (values, ambition).
Administrative
Fishbone: Cause-Effect Diagram
Draw a "fish skeleton" of the problem: head = issue, bones = cause categories.
Professional
One Idea Per Paragraph
Each paragraph = one idea. If two ideas, split.
Administrative
Zero-Based Headcount Review
Don't ask "do we need another hire?" — ask "if we started today with nobody, who'd we hire first?".
Leadership
Build a Hard Conversation with DESC
4 steps: Describe (situation), Express (impact), Specify (change), Consequences (outcomes).
Parenting
I-Message Instead of You-Message
Replace "you always forget" with "I feel worried when..." — Thomas Gordon's classic formula.
Digital & AI
Iterative Refinement, Not Restart
Instead of rewriting the prompt, say "this part good. this part fix to X". 4 rounds = perfect output.
Psychological
Expansion vs Resistance
Open space for hard sensation in your body instead of suppressing or fleeing.
Psychological
RAIN Meditation
Recognize, Allow, Investigate, Nurture — four steps to heal a hard emotion.
Psychological
Inner Critic vs Compassionate Voice Journal
Log what your inner critic says one day — rewrite in compassionate voice.
Psychological
Inner Critic Dialogue
Inner critic isn't enemy — it's a terrified protector. Speak with curiosity.
Professional
Tactical Emotional Labeling
Use one emotion-labeling phrase that defuses tension in a hard conversation within 30 seconds.
Professional
Calibrated Questions
Replace direct demands with a "how" or "what" question so the other side feels in control while solving your problem.
Professional
Eat the Frog
Hardest task is your first morning act — before email, before everything.
Professional
5-Question Prep
5 questions before any presentation: who, why, what, how, what next.
Professional
Q&A Anticipation
Write 10 likely questions — prepare responses.
Professional
Callback Closing
In ending, return to opening story — completes arc.
Professional
Resume Bullets STAR
Convert 5 resume bullets from "duties" to Situation-Task-Action-Result outcomes.
Professional
50/30/20 Budget
Allocate income: 50% needs, 30% wants, 20% savings/investing/debt.
Social
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Five Minutes of Full-Attention Listening
Give the other person five full minutes of attention with no interruption or advice, then summarize what you heard.
Social
Last-Three Mirroring
Repeat the last three words your speaker said with curious tone; they will continue deeper without you asking.
Social
The Seven-Second Pause Rule
After your speaker pauses, count seven seconds before you speak to surface what lies beneath the first line.
Social
Three-Sentence Reflective Listening
After hearing your partner, reflect back three sentences: content, feeling, and underlying value.
Social
Summarize-and-Verify Before Replying
Before any reply, summarize your speaker's argument and verify with them you got it before disagreeing.
Social
Reflective Listening
Paraphrase what you heard before responding — speaker confirms you heard.
Social
"I-Statement"
Instead of "you always...", say "I feel ... when X happens".
Social
Listen Without Fixing
Don't try to "fix" friend's feelings — be a well that holds, not a tissue that wipes.
Social
Label Other's Emotion Precisely
Replace "you seem upset" with wheel-precise: "you seem frustrated because...".
Administrative
Three-Point Estimation (PERT)
For each task estimate: optimistic, most-likely, pessimistic — then compute expected.
Leadership
Porter's Five Forces: Dissecting Industry Profitability
Analyze five competitive forces to understand why your industry is profitable (or not) and who captures the value.
Leadership
Business Model Canvas
Sketch your business model on nine boxes on a single page to find gaps before launch.
Leadership
Minto Pyramid for Communication
Conclusion first, 3 arguments, evidence per argument. Leaders speak from top, not foundation.
Leadership
Porter's 5 Forces: Anatomizing Your Industry
Your industry isn't just war on competitors. 5 forces determine your profit. Ignoring = slow bankruptcy.
Leadership
Ethical No Practice
Practice refusing an unethical request clearly and respectfully — before you must in reality.
Parenting
The Three-Second Advice Hold
Learn to delay your instant advice by three seconds, opening space for listening before guiding.
Parenting
Tell Me More
Replace investigative "why?" questions with the invitation "tell me more" to open the story.
Parenting
Teen Talk Without Solutions
When your teen shares a problem, don't offer a fix unless explicitly asked.
Parenting
Collaborative Problem Solving
Instead of imposing a fix, collaborate with your child to solve concerns of both — Ross Greene method.
Parenting
The Daily Open Question
Replace "how was school?" with a daily-varying open question that invites a story not "fine."
Parenting
Reflective Summarizing
After your child talks, summarize in your own words — he confirms you heard and corrects if wrong.
Parenting
Flexible Routine, Not Rigid
Autistic/ADHD child needs strong but not rigid routine — distinguish predictability from inflexibility.
Parenting
Social Media Curiosity Talk
Instead of "platforms harm you", ask curiously: "what do you enjoy most? what bothers you?"
Parenting
Collaborative Curfew Negotiation
Turn curfew from an imposed decree into a negotiated agreement, giving your teen real voice within clear limits.
Parenting
The Full Visual Morning System
Beyond a single checklist — a complete visual system with numbered stations transferring full morning independence to the child.
Parenting
Co-Viewing Quality Over Quantity Framing
Sitting beside your child during screen time isn't enough — 3 in-scene questions turn passive sitting into actual dialogue.
Digital & AI
Socratic AI Tutor
Ask the model to question you instead of answering, surfacing and deepening your understanding.
Digital & AI
Expert-Student Dialogue for Knowledge Extraction
Have the model play expert + student who asks "dumb" questions — extracts tacit knowledge.