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Social
Aligning Your Shared Future Vision
Draw a 5-year timeline together and compare divergence points before they become a sudden collision.
Professional
Decision Assumptions
Before any big decision, write 5 assumptions you relied on — test the weakest.
Administrative
RACI Matrix per Recurring Decision
For each recurring decision specify Responsible, Accountable, Consulted, Informed — leave no column empty.
Administrative
2-Way Door vs 1-Way Door Sort
Two-way-door decisions move fast with no meetings; one-way-door demands scrutiny.
Administrative
24-Hour Pause Before Big Decisions
Any decision over 5000 SAR or 5 hours of impact — wait 24 hours before executing.
Leadership
70% Information Decision Rule (Bezos)
Don't wait for 90% information; major decisions are made at 70% — beyond that is costly delay.
Leadership
Bias Mitigation Plan
Before people-affecting decision, identify 3 potential biases and create a shield for each.
Administrative
Monthly Decision Journal
Log every important decision with your prediction; review monthly for calibration accuracy.
Leadership
Ethical Decision Matrix
Before ethically murky decision, evaluate on 4 axes: legal/ethical/values/reputation.
Professional
Decision Journal
For every important decision, log: situation, options, expectation, reason — review after 6 months.
Professional
No-Decision Audit
Each month, list 5 decisions you didn't make — postponing IS a decision.
Administrative
Annual Theme Instead of Resolutions
A single theme-word guides your year's decisions instead of forgotten resolutions.
Administrative
Lightweight Daily Decision Log
One line per decision you make: what, why, and which alternative you rejected — takes only 30 seconds.
Leadership
Consistency Check with Past Decisions
Compare your current decision to past decisions in similar situations — are you consistent or contradicting?
Leadership
24-Hour Decision Rule
Don't make a major financial/emotional/strategic decision before sleeping on it one full night.
Leadership
Decision Classification: Reversible?
Per decision: is it a two-way door (reversible) or one-way door?
Leadership
Weighted Decision Matrix
For decisions with 3+ options: 5 criteria, weights, 1-5 ratings, mathematical winner.
Leadership
Decision Journal
Per big leadership decision: your mental state, info, prediction, actual outcome. Learn from mistakes.
Leadership
Decision Equity Audit
Review your team's last 20 decisions (promotion, project, leave). Who gained? Who lost? Pattern reveals bias.
Leadership
Ethical Decision-Making Under Commercial Pressure
When an urgent profit target conflicts with an ethical principle, write both sides explicitly on one page before deciding — don't let it be settled only in your head.
Leadership
The "Front Page Test" for Decisions
Before any sensitive decision, ask: if published with full detail on tomorrow's front page, would I defend it with pride or look for an exit?
Parenting
Building Sibling Teamwork Through a Shared Project
One project with a genuine shared goal turns "rivals" into a "team" — experience builds the bond, not advice.
Digital & AI
AI-Assisted Decision Journaling
Before a big decision, ask AI to surface your biases through questions (not give the answer), then log the decision and prediction for later review.
Administrative
Decision Matrix With 5 Axes
Compare options across 5 weighted axes; compute the highest sum.
Social
The Common Need Question
Convert "me vs you" into "us vs the problem" with one question about a shared need.
Social
Shared Need Question
Deep in conflict, ask: "What is the shared need we are both trying to meet?"
Administrative
Delegating Decisions, Not Tasks
Specify the decision-types (not tasks) you will delegate via an explicit authority ring.
Administrative
Architecture Decision Record (ADR)
Each significant decision: a text file with context, options, choice, consequences.
Administrative
Decision Rights Matrix
Per decision type: who proposes, decides, consulted, informed.
Leadership
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Pre-Mortem: Imagining the Decision Failed
Before committing to a big decision, imagine it failed a year from now and list three primary causes.
Digital & AI
AI Limits in Personal Decisions
AI = info-gathering tool. Personal decisions (marriage, career, medical, friendship) = human decides.
Parenting
Co-Viewing
When your child watches, sit with him and ask during the show — the screen turns from isolator to connector.
Parenting
Co-Viewing Quality Over Quantity Framing
Sitting beside your child during screen time isn't enough — 3 in-scene questions turn passive sitting into actual dialogue.
Digital & AI
Co-Viewing vs. Solo-Screen Time
When your child watches content, watch with them and comment and ask — the difference between a screen that educates and one that numbs is your presence.
Administrative
Consult 5 Different People
Before big decisions, consult 5 from varied lenses (expertise, age, culture, bias).
Leadership
Working Agreement
5-7 detailed rules for daily team operations (meetings, replies, vacations, decisions).
Psychological
Common Humanity Reflection
In your suffering, recall that millions live similarly now — you're not alone.
Social
Co-Regulating With a Distressed Person
When someone near you is distressed, lower your own voice and pace first — your calm body lends calm.
Leadership
First 72 Hours of Crisis: Decision Framework
In the first 72 hours of a crisis, 80% of the damage is locked in. This framework cuts damage in half.
Parenting
Co-Regulation Through Breath
Calm yourself first — your nervous system calms the child's via physiological synchronization.
Parenting
Collaborative Curfew Negotiation
Turn curfew from an imposed decree into a negotiated agreement, giving your teen real voice within clear limits.
Parenting
Play as a Repair Tool After Conflict
After yelling or conflict with your child, five minutes of genuine play repairs the bond faster than any lengthy verbal explanation.
Digital & AI
Age-Gates Discussion
Instagram says "13+". Haidt says "16+". Where's your researched stance?
Psychological
STOP in an Impulse Moment
Stop, take a breath, observe, proceed mindfully — four seconds save a decision.
Professional
Pre-Mortem Analysis
Imagine your decision failed a year from now and write the reasons today — preventing 70% of catastrophes.
Professional
The 10-10-10 Rule
Ask "how will I feel about this in 10 minutes, 10 months, 10 years?" — and escape the trap of the moment.
Professional
2-Way vs 1-Way Door
Classify decision: reversible (2-way door) or not (1-way)? Required speed differs.
Administrative
10-10-10 Test
How will I feel about this decision in 10 minutes, 10 months, 10 years?
Administrative
Decision Stress Test
Before big commitment: "what if X drops 50%?" Test plan robustness.
Leadership
Reversible vs Irreversible Doors
Distinguish decisions you can reverse cheaply from those you can't — then treat them differently.
Leadership
10-10-10 Decision Rule (Suzy Welch)
Before any hard choice, ask: what is the consequence in 10 minutes? 10 months? 10 years?
Digital & AI
Inbox Zero
Rule: per email, one decision: reply in 2 min, delegate, defer, or delete. No "later".
Professional
Pre-Mortem
Before executing decision, imagine it failed in a year, enumerate most likely failure causes.
Administrative
"Consider the Opposite" Practice
Before confirming a decision, spend 10 minutes writing the counter-case forcefully.
Psychological
Crisis Survival
In intense crisis, no decisions. Calm first.
Professional
Personal Board of Directors
Appoint 5 people as your "personal career board" and review big decisions with them annually.
Professional
Cost-of-Delay Calc
For each delayed decision, compute weekly cost of delay financially or in opportunity.
Professional
Reversible Sort
Sort 10 upcoming decisions into reversible/irreversible columns and set their speed.
Professional
BHAG Vision
Set ONE Big Hairy Audacious Goal for next 10-15 years that drives daily decisions.
Social
Rescue a Dead Meeting
Turn a dead meeting productive with three GROW questions and one clear decision.