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Administrative
Post-Mortem Library
Each major incident/issue: written post-mortem — saved in searchable library.
Leadership
Mastering Crucial Conversations (Patterson)
3 conditions for crucial conversations: high stakes, opposing opinions, strong emotion — use 7 skills to succeed.
Leadership
Anatomy of a Difficult Conversation (Stone & Heen)
3 conversations within every difficult one: "what happened", "feelings", "identity". Separate them and succeed.
Parenting
Screen Time as a Values Conversation, Not a Daily Battle
Beyond a one-time signed document — a renewed weekly conversation asking "why," not just "how many minutes."
Leadership
Build a Hard Conversation with DESC
4 steps: Describe (situation), Express (impact), Specify (change), Consequences (outcomes).
Professional
Eisenhower Matrix
Sort your tasks into four quadrants in ten minutes to know exactly what to do now, defer, delegate, or drop.
Social
The Graceful Exit
Close a conversation with appreciation + reason + bridge to next, in three sentences.
Social
Right to Change Mind
You have the right to change your mind without justification — old promise doesn't bind forever.
Social
Graceful Exit From a Text Thread
End a drawn-out text thread with a warm closing line instead of silently fading out.
Administrative
Advanced Eisenhower Matrix
Sort your week's tasks into four quadrants: urgent-important, important-not-urgent, urgent-not-important, neither.
Administrative
Career-Pathing Conversation
Ask every team member once a quarter: where do you want to be in two years? Then explicitly tie their current work to that path.
Leadership
CCL's 70-20-10 Development Model
Real development: 70% from hard assignments, 20% from relationships, 10% from training. Focus on the 70.
Digital & AI
Age-Appropriate Social Media Onboarding Conversation
Before allowing your child's first social media account, hold a structured conversation (not a lecture) covering privacy, strangers, and social comparison.
Social
Graceful Conversation Exit
Use: "I'd love to continue but I need X — can I come back later?" — no-awkward exit.
Administrative
Post-Incident Review
After major incident: full review — timeline, causes, improvements, no blame.
Psychological
"I Am Safe Now" Anchor
In flashback, anchor present with 3 sensory facts.
Professional
Eisenhower Matrix
Sort tasks on urgent/important axes and treat each quadrant with its rule.
Social
Monthly Neighborhood Ritual
Organize a monthly meet with neighbors (coffee, breakfast, walk) — builds the "third place" we lost.
Administrative
Monthly Risk Register
List your top 10 risks with probability, impact, and owner; review the first Monday each month.
Administrative
Advanced Eisenhower Matrix
Sort 20 tasks from your list into only two quadrants: important-not-urgent and important-urgent.
Administrative
Monthly Variance Analysis
Monthly: planned vs actual — focus on variances >5%, dig into causes.
Administrative
Incident Commander Assignment
In crisis: one person leads, all report to them, fast decisions — not "committee".
Leadership
GROW Model for Coaching Conversations
A 30-min conversation with a report: Goal, Reality, Options, Will — to grow their thinking instead of giving answers.
Parenting
Zone of Proximal Development Scaffold
Offer a challenge slightly harder than he can solo, and gradually less scaffolding.
Administrative
The Andon Cord: Everyone's Stop Authority
Give every employee the right to halt the process instantly upon spotting a defect, without waiting for manager approval.
Digital & AI
Monthly Phone App Audit
Delete any app unopened in 30 days — lose apps before they cost you focus.
Administrative
Mendelow Power-Interest Grid
Each stakeholder: place in quadrant (high/low power × high/low interest) — each quadrant has strategy.
Professional
Monthly Subscription Audit
Audit every auto-subscription in 30 minutes and cancel what you don't actually use — typically recovering 30-50% of digital spend.
Administrative
The "Never Delegate This" List
Identify 5-7 tasks that must stay with you, so you delegate everything else with peace.
Administrative
Stakeholder Expectation-Reset Conversation
When you realize you won't meet a past promise, announce it early in a specific format — don't wait until the deadline for the stakeholder to discover it themselves.
Leadership
The Coaching vs. Mentoring Distinction in Practice
Before any development conversation, ask yourself: will I ask questions (coaching) or share my experience (mentoring)? Mixing them fails both.
Psychological
Emotion Validation
Tell self "it makes sense to feel this" — don't contest.
Psychological
Sensory Anchoring (5 senses)
Notice one thing per sense now — exit dissociation.
Administrative
Kotter's 8 Stages of Change
Every successful change passes 8 steps in order — skipping any = likely failure.
Administrative
Per-Stakeholder Comm Plan
Per key stakeholder: what to send, when, via which channel, what to expect.
Social
Replace "Always/Never" With "Today/Now"
In fights, "you always..." is a no-return point. Swap with "today I noticed...".
Administrative
Monthly Decision Journal
Log every important decision with your prediction; review monthly for calibration accuracy.
Leadership
Knowledge Reversal Test
Imagine entering the decision with what you know today — would you still make it?
Leadership
Conducting a Respectful Firing Conversation
End employment with least harm: 10 min, 3 clear messages, dignified exit.
Leadership
Monthly Sponsorship List
Each month, identify 3 employees you'll name in rooms they don't enter. Sponsorship is system, not event.
Administrative
Architecture Decision Record (ADR)
Each significant decision: a text file with context, options, choice, consequences.
Administrative
Architecture Decision Records Archive
Each major decision: context, options, decision, consequences — one page, sequential.
Administrative
Expectation-Setting Kickoff
Project first meeting: explicit expectations — scope, date, quality, comms, alarms.
Professional
30-Second Elevator Pitch
Prepare a 30-second pitch that describes what you do, for whom, and why it matters — so you never fumble at a chance meeting.
Professional
Difficult Feedback Rehearsal
Before tough talk, role-play as recipient and respond to your script — uncover blow-up points.
Social
FORD Topics for First Conversations
Use Family-Occupation-Recreation-Dreams as four safe entry doors for any new conversation.
Administrative
"No Agenda, No Meeting" Rule
Decline any meeting without a written agenda — politely cancel and request one.
Administrative
Project Commitment Pyramid
Classify every commitment: fixed (must), negotiable (should), optional (could).
Administrative
"Consider the Opposite" Practice
Before confirming a decision, spend 10 minutes writing the counter-case forcefully.
Administrative
Inversion Thinking
Instead of "how do I succeed?", ask "how would I fail confidently?" — then avoid each item.
Administrative
Fishbone: Cause-Effect Diagram
Draw a "fish skeleton" of the problem: head = issue, bones = cause categories.
Administrative
OODA Loop: Observe-Orient-Decide-Act
In dynamic problems, cycle OODA faster than the adversary.
Administrative
Inverted Pyramid (Minto)
Lead with conclusion first, then supporting arguments, then details — never the reverse.
Administrative
Risk Matrix: Probability × Impact
Rate each risk on a 5×5 grid — color dictates response urgency.
Administrative
Lewin Model: Unfreeze-Move-Refreeze
Three core phases of any change: unfreeze status quo, move it, refreeze the new state.
Administrative
RACI Matrix for Role Clarity
Per task: who Responsible, Accountable, Consulted, Informed — no duplication for first two.
Administrative
Policy on One Page
Each policy: title, scope, 5 rules, exceptions, review date — one page only.
Administrative
Switch-Cost Analysis
Before renewing expensive vendor: compute real switch cost — may be less than you think.
Administrative
Onboarding Wiki
New hire week 1: one page with everything they need — not "ask so-and-so".
Administrative
Task Audit Then Automate
Don't automate before knowing what's worth it — log a week, analyze, then act.