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Social
Curiosity Without Judgment
When acts oddly, ask "why did he do that?" with curiosity not critique.
Social
Separate Fact from Interpretation
Write the situation in two columns: a fact a camera could record, and your interpretation.
Psychological
Rewriting Failure Story
The story you tell about failure shapes your feeling — rewrite with broader truth.
Social
Restructure "Everyone Is Judging Me"
Dissect the thought: evidence? Real ratio? What are others actually doing?
Administrative
Single Source of Truth per Fact
For every recurring fact, designate one official place it lives, and turn every other copy into a link to it.
Parenting
Drawing Without Judgment
Keep drawing as joy not test — don't say "that's pretty" or "what's that?" — ask about the story.
Social
The Generous Backstory
Invent at least three plausible reasons for a behavior that upset you, before you judge.
Psychological
Emotion Description Without Judgment
Name feeling (sad, angry) — without "I'm bad" or "this is wrong".
Psychological
Evidence For-Against Dialogue
Put your negative thought on trial: what's the evidence for and against? Then judge.
Parenting
Social Media Curiosity Talk
Instead of "platforms harm you", ask curiously: "what do you enjoy most? what bothers you?"
Social
Other's POV
Before judging behavior, imagine context from other's view for 30 sec.
Psychological
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Automatic Thought Record
Catch today's most painful automatic thought and break it into facts and alternative interpretations.
Psychological
Socratic Dialogue with a Stubborn Thought
Interrogate your thought with seven Socratic questions until it loses automatic authority.
Professional
SBI Model
Phrase every feedback in 3 sentences: situation, specific behavior, impact — no interpretation.
Administrative
Lessons-Learned Repository Habit
After any task (not just major projects), one line: what lesson won't I forget? — accumulates into an actual wisdom library.
Digital & AI
Knowing When NOT to Use AI at All
Write a personal list of situations where you exclude AI entirely — irreversible decisions needing purely human judgment.
Social
The "Seen, No Reply" Anxiety
When you see the blue read-receipt marks with no reply, run a 3-step protocol instead of watching your phone.
Psychological
Cognitive Reappraisal
Instead of suppressing emotion, reinterpret the situation generating it.
Psychological
STOP Skill
Stop, breathe, observe, proceed mindfully — 4 steps in 30 sec.
Social
Fogging to Defuse a Dispute
In unfair criticism, agree only with the "grain of truth" without entering defense.
Social
Verify Before Concluding
Before judging intent, call and ask — avoid 80% of misunderstandings.
Leadership
10-Bias Audit
Before any major decision, check 10 common cognitive biases that may distort your judgment.
Psychological
ABC Model Map
Event (A) → Belief (B) → Consequence (C): break the assumption that events cause emotions directly.
Administrative
Audit of "Only-Me" Tasks
Log every task you do for a full week, then tag: delegable / non-delegable.
Professional
Personal Board of Directors
Appoint 5 people as your "personal career board" and review big decisions with them annually.
Professional
Letter From Wise Self
When tired, write a letter from your "self" at 80 to your "self" today.
Administrative
Delegating Decisions, Not Tasks
Specify the decision-types (not tasks) you will delegate via an explicit authority ring.
Leadership
Role-Model Decision Test
Imagine someone you deeply respect and ask: "What would you do in my place?"
Leadership
Imagined Advisory Board
Convene a mental meeting with 5 imaginary experts before any major leadership decision.
Digital & AI
AI Limits in Personal Decisions
AI = info-gathering tool. Personal decisions (marriage, career, medical, friendship) = human decides.
Psychological
Funeral Visualization
Hear what you wish would be said of you in 50 years to learn what matters today.
Psychological
Wise Mind: Logic Meets Emotion
Breathe ten times and find the point between your emotional and logical minds.
Psychological
Radical Acceptance of the Unchangeable
Stop fighting what already happened to free energy for moving forward.
Psychological
Mind-Reading Challenge
You assume what others think of you — but never asked.
Psychological
Expansion vs Resistance
Open space for hard sensation in your body instead of suppressing or fleeing.
Psychological
Physical Pain Sensation Acceptance
Physical pain doesn't obey resistance — it softens with conscious acceptance.
Psychological
90-Second Wave
Every emotion is a chemical wave ending in 90 seconds — wait before responding.
Psychological
Just-World Test
"People deserve what happens to them" — test on people you love.
Psychological
Universalization Question
Your negative thought — if someone else thought it, would you agree?
Psychological
"I'm a Failure" Audit
"I'm a failure" needs 5 evidence + 5 counter. Write them.
Psychological
Pain Mindfulness
Pain + resistance = suffering. Pain - resistance = just pain.
Professional
Notification Detox
Disable 90% of phone notifications in 15 minutes and reclaim two hours of focus each day.
Professional
The 10-10-10 Rule
Ask "how will I feel about this in 10 minutes, 10 months, 10 years?" — and escape the trap of the moment.
Professional
Full Notification Detox
Turn off all phone notifications except calls and core messages.
Professional
Strategic 4-Sec Pause
After each key point, 4-sec silence — audience absorbs.
Professional
Pre-Stage Breathing
5 deep breaths before stage — calms nervous system.
Professional
Process Goals
Don't target "$100K this year" — target "3 sales calls daily".
Professional
25 Headlines
For each article/post, write 25 headlines before picking one — last 5 win quality.
Social
Reading Silence Across Cultures
Before reading a colleague's silence in a meeting, ask: is it thinking, respect, or deferred refusal?
Administrative
Compute Takt Time
Customer beat: if demand is 8 units in 8 hours, takt = 1 hour per unit.
Administrative
Escalation Path Design
Per issue type: when resolved at current level, when escalates up.
Administrative
Amazon-Style Weekly Business Review
Weekly: 30-min silent reading of 6-pager data, then sharp discussion.
Leadership
10-10-10 Decision Rule (Suzy Welch)
Before any hard choice, ask: what is the consequence in 10 minutes? 10 months? 10 years?
Leadership
Inversion Thinking (Munger)
Instead of asking "how do I succeed?" ask "what guarantees failure?" then avoid it.
Leadership
Expected Value Calculation
Don't choose by "most likely outcome" — multiply each outcome's probability by its value, then sum.
Leadership
Sunk Cost Release
Effort and money already spent are unrecoverable — ignore them when evaluating continue vs exit.
Leadership
24-Hour Decision Rule
Don't make a major financial/emotional/strategic decision before sleeping on it one full night.
Leadership
Decision Journal
Per big leadership decision: your mental state, info, prediction, actual outcome. Learn from mistakes.
Leadership
Silent Presence Training
In a meeting, learn to listen 80% and speak 20%. Leader's authority grows in silence, not words.
Leadership
Mastering Crucial Conversations (Patterson)
3 conditions for crucial conversations: high stakes, opposing opinions, strong emotion — use 7 skills to succeed.