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Administrative
Lewin Model: Unfreeze-Move-Refreeze
Three core phases of any change: unfreeze status quo, move it, refreeze the new state.
Parenting
Name the Need Behind the Behavior
Every difficult behavior hides an unmet need — practice the question that reveals it instead of judging it.
Administrative
"You Decide" List for New Hires
On day one, hand the new hire a list of 15 decisions they make alone without consulting you.
Parenting
Distinguishing Meltdown from Tantrum — and Responding Accordingly
A tantrum aims to get something; a sensory meltdown is a total loss of control — each requires a completely different response.
Administrative
90-Day Plan for a New Role
Three phases: learn (30), diagnose (60), first win (90).
Administrative
New Vendor 90-Day Check-In
90 days into contract: review with vendor — don't wait for renewal to find issues.
Digital & AI
6-Month Rule for New Tech
Don't adopt new tech until 6 months post-launch — time exposes flawed vs valuable.
Social
Validate Feelings
Say: "your feelings make sense" — even if you disagree with behavior.
Psychological
Personal Values Tree
Values are roots, behaviors are leaves — draw your tree.
Psychological
Habit Stacking
Link new habit to existing — "after established X, I'll do new Y".
Professional
SBI Model
Phrase every feedback in 3 sentences: situation, specific behavior, impact — no interpretation.
Professional
Identity Goals
Instead of "I want to run a marathon", say "I'm a runner" — identity drives behavior.
Social
DESC Script for a Tough Conversation
Write four sentences: Describe the behavior, Express the impact, Specify the change, Consequences.
Leadership
Build SBI Feedback for Reports
Frame feedback in 3 sentences: Situation, Behavior, Impact — strips bias, refocuses on behavior.
Psychological
Opposite Action
When your emotion doesn't serve the situation, do the opposite of what it pushes you to.
Professional
Praise Specificity Drill
Replace vague "good job" with specific praise describing: what he did, impact, why it matters.
Professional
Implementation Intentions
Phrase every goal as "if X happens, I will do Y" — doubles completion rate.
Psychological
Environment Redesign
Environment shapes habits — redesign it before demanding willpower.
Professional
SBI Feedback Model
Deliver effective feedback in 3 parts (Situation—Behavior—Impact) so the other person hears you without defensiveness.
Professional
First 90-Day Plan
In new role, listen 30 days, plan 30, execute 30 — don't reverse order.
Professional
Start-Stop-Continue Self
Each month, write 3 behaviors to start, 3 to stop, 3 to continue.
Professional
Tiny Habit Stacking
Don't target "meditate 30 min" — target "one breath after coffee".
Administrative
Video Standard Operating Procedure
Record a one-hour screen video of someone doing the task instead of writing 15 pages nobody reads.
Administrative
Post-Delegation SBI Feedback
After any delegated task completes, deliver feedback in Situation-Behavior-Impact format.
Administrative
Annual Theme Instead of Resolutions
A single theme-word guides your year's decisions instead of forgotten resolutions.
Administrative
OODA Loop: Observe-Orient-Decide-Act
In dynamic problems, cycle OODA faster than the adversary.
Administrative
Team Handbook
One document answering every "how do we work here?" question for new hires.
Administrative
Identify & Exploit Bottleneck (TOC)
Every process chain is limited by slowest step — speeding others is waste.
Administrative
Wiki Home Page Design
One page answering "where do I find X?" for 80% of team questions.
Administrative
Build Blameless Culture
Error defined as system problem not person — unlocks honest info without fear.
Administrative
New-Member Buddy System
Every new member gets a peer "buddy" (not their manager) for the first 30 days to ask any "silly" question.
Leadership
Tuckman Stages Identification
Identify which of 5 stages your team is in (forming, storming, norming, performing, adjourning) to choose the right intervention.
Leadership
Feedforward Coaching
Instead of feedback on the past, ask reports for future suggestions — less defensiveness, higher application.
Leadership
Sorting Your 5 Leadership Values
From 30 values, pick only 5 — very hard but reveals what truly matters.
Leadership
The 90-Day Plan (Watkins)
In transition to a new role: 30 days listen, 30 plan, 30 execute. Avoid "prove myself immediately" trap.
Leadership
Onboarding Your Manager (Not the Reverse)
When joining a new manager (or they join you), give them YOUR user manual. How you work best? What annoys? What you need?
Leadership
Integrity Audit
Each quarter, audit: does what I say match what I do?
Parenting
Graduated Autonomy Release
Each year after 13 = a new autonomy level. Plan it openly instead of suddenly granting at 18.
Digital & AI
Replacing the Scroll Trigger With a Substitute Habit
Don't try to stop scrolling through willpower alone — replace the trigger itself (boredom, anxiety) with a predefined alternative action within 3 seconds.
Professional
Building STAR Interview Stories
Prepare three STAR stories (Situation—Task—Action—Result) that cover 80% of behavioral interview questions.
Professional
Annual Theme
Instead of New Year resolutions, pick one "theme" (year of health, year of depth...).
Administrative
Onboarding Wiki
New hire week 1: one page with everything they need — not "ask so-and-so".
Leadership
Team Values Dialogue
A frank 1-hour discussion: what 5 values do we want to work by, and what behaviors express them?
Leadership
Onboarding a New Team Member: 30-60-90 Day Plan
Design a 3-phase leadership onboarding plan: Learn (30) → Contribute (60) → Own (90) — instead of leaving the new member to "figure it out alone".
Leadership
Handling a Toxic High-Performer
When a member delivers excellent results but destroys team morale, separate performance from behavior via a clear standard and a direct honest conversation.
Digital & AI
Attention-Residue Recovery
After every task-switch, write 2 sentences about previous task before starting new. Clears "residue".
Psychological
Passengers on the Bus
You're the bus driver, your thoughts are noisy passengers — drive despite their voices.
Social
SOLER Listening Posture
Use five body cues (Square, Open, Lean, Eye contact, Relaxed) to make your speaker feel safe.
Social
The Ready-No Sentence
Memorize one 7-word refusal sentence and rehearse it until it emerges automatically under pressure.
Social
FORD Topics for First Conversations
Use Family-Occupation-Recreation-Dreams as four safe entry doors for any new conversation.
Leadership
Multiplier vs. Diminisher Diagnosis
Determine if you multiply your team's intelligence or drain it via 5 specific leader behaviors.
Leadership
Silent Presence Training
In a meeting, learn to listen 80% and speak 20%. Leader's authority grows in silence, not words.
Parenting
Unconditional-Regard Language Practice
Practice sentences that separate your love from your child's performance — love isn't earned or withdrawn.
Parenting
Collaborative Problem Solving
Instead of imposing a fix, collaborate with your child to solve concerns of both — Ross Greene method.
Digital & AI
Replace Scroll with Substitute Behavior
Each scroll-urge, execute pre-defined substitute (10 breath cycles, drink water, 5 squats).
Digital & AI
Internal Trigger Map (Eyal)
Identify 5 feelings that make you open phone. Per feeling, alternative plan pre-touch.