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Professional
Self-1 vs Self-2
Self-1 (critic) sabotages Self-2 (doer) — watch inner dialogue during performance.
Psychological
Self-Energy Meeting
Beneath noisy parts is a calm curious compassionate "Self" — meet it.
Psychological
Symbolic Self-Portrait
Draw self as symbol/animal/scene — discover self unconsciously.
Professional
Self-Compassion Break
On failure, 3 sentences: "this is suffering. Suffering is human. I treat self kindly".
Social
Self-Compassion Break
In suffering, apply Neff's 3 steps: acknowledge, common humanity, self-kindness.
Psychological
Self as Context
You aren't your thoughts or feelings — you're the context they happen in.
Professional
Negotiate With Self First
Before negotiation, negotiate with self: want? accept? refuse?
Professional
Personal Board of Directors
Appoint 5 people as your "personal career board" and review big decisions with them annually.
Social
Manage Jealousy Toward a Friend
Convert jealousy of a successful friend into inspiration via 3 CBT questions.
Administrative
Upward Stakeholder Management
Your boss has little time, many concerns — use 4 principles to be a smart stakeholder.
Leadership
Monkey Management
Each time a report brings a problem, the monkey jumps on your back. Your job: keep it on theirs.
Leadership
Mastering Crucial Conversations (Patterson)
3 conditions for crucial conversations: high stakes, opposing opinions, strong emotion — use 7 skills to succeed.
Leadership
Self-Coaching Protocol
When no coach is available, write out answers to GROW questions about yourself, aloud or in writing — leaders need to coach themselves too.
Leadership
Managing the Pain of Change Deliberately
Real change needs some tension, not zero — your role isn't removing all discomfort, but keeping it within a range that produces learning, not collapse.
Digital & AI
Effectively Managing Your Google Self-Search Result
When you find a negative or outdated result searching your name, apply a clear protocol: update, request removal, or bury with stronger content.
Psychological
Self-Compassion Mantras
3 short phrases to memorize for self-collapse moments.
Psychological
Observing Self: Who Notices?
Discover the constant "I" that has witnessed every changing thought and feeling.
Psychological
Self-Hug Exercise
Hug yourself 20 sec — nervous system responds like others' hugs.
Psychological
Self Bilateral Stimulation
Tap thighs alternately (right, left) 30 sec — soothes small trauma.
Psychological
Eulogy Writing
Write what you wish said at your funeral — discover deep values.
Psychological
Self Co-Regulation
Breathe with another body (partner or animal) — regulates nervous system.
Psychological
Self-Eulogy Writing
Write your eulogy as if delivered for you — discover deep values.
Social
Avoid Self-Hijack
When you feel "similar story" hijacking, resist — don't interrupt with yours.
Administrative
Managing the Difficult Stakeholder
Before labeling someone "difficult", diagnose the specific type: are they anxious, ignored, or genuinely conflicted in interest?
Leadership
McKinsey Three Horizons
Balance investment across the core today, near growth, and long-range bets.
Leadership
Kill the Company: Self-Disruption Exercise
Gather team, ask: "How could you destroy our company in 5 yrs?". Answers = vulnerabilities to fix before a competitor does.
Leadership
Ask, Don't Tell: The Manage-Up Rule
When you need to influence your manager, don't tell them the solution. Ask a question leading them. Their ownership > yours.
Parenting
Building the Child's Own Self-Advocacy Skill
Teach your child to explain his own needs gradually — instead of remaining his only voice forever.
Parenting
Managing Holiday/Travel Routine Disruption
Keep 3 fixed "anchors" from your child's routine during travel — the rest of the routine can flex freely.
Parenting
Handling a Screen-Time Meltdown When Time Is Up
Meltdown at screen shutoff is neurologically normal (dopamine cut abruptly) — a graduated ending protocol drastically reduces it.
Digital & AI
Self-Critique: Review Your Own Answer
After the model answers, ask it to critique its own answer and improve it before final delivery.
Digital & AI
Bio Voice Consistency
Your bio across platforms says same thing, same tone, same values. Even at different lengths.
Leadership
GROW Model for Coaching Conversations
A 30-min conversation with a report: Goal, Reality, Options, Will — to grow their thinking instead of giving answers.
Leadership
Anatomy of a Difficult Conversation (Stone & Heen)
3 conversations within every difficult one: "what happened", "feelings", "identity". Separate them and succeed.
Leadership
Conflict with Your Manager: DESC Model
Manager crossed a line or made an error affecting you. DESC: Describe, Express, Specify, Consequence. Each in a sentence.
Administrative
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Silent Reading Meeting Start
Open the meeting with five minutes of silent reading of a written memo instead of slides.
Administrative
Five-Level Delegation Ladder
Delegate each task at one of five explicit levels instead of just "do it" or "don't".
Administrative
Non-Delegatable Task List
Explicitly write a list of 3-5 tasks you never delegate, and delegate everything else without hesitation.
Psychological
Compassionate Self-Talk
Imagine a friend in the same situation — what would you tell them? Tell yourself.
Psychological
Externalizing the Problem
Instead of "I am depressed", say "depression visits me" — problem loses grip.
Psychological
Lake Meditation
Imagine self as lake — storms on surface, depth calm.
Professional
Personal Kanban
3 columns.
Professional
Job Hunt Pipeline
Shift job hunt from random applications to a 6-stage pipeline tracked weekly.
Professional
SBI Model
Phrase every feedback in 3 sentences: situation, specific behavior, impact — no interpretation.
Professional
Energy Investment Portfolio
Allocate energy across 4 dimensions: physical, mental, emotional, spiritual — review balance weekly.
Social
Positive Assertion
Praise self publicly when deserved: "I did well" — breaks toxic humility.
Administrative
Audit of "Only-Me" Tasks
Log every task you do for a full week, then tag: delegable / non-delegable.
Administrative
Weekly Gemba Walk
Go to the workplace, observe yourself, ask "why" 3 times, don't intervene.
Psychological
Downward Arrow Technique
Drop your anxious thought down by asking "and what would that mean?" until you reach the core belief beneath it.
Psychological
Worry Postponement Window
Log your worry now and postpone it to a designated 15-minute window in your day.
Psychological
Leaves on a Stream
Place each thought on a leaf and watch it drift down a stream.
Psychological
Willingness to Hold Discomfort
Open your hand to uncomfortable feelings instead of clenching — and watch them soften.
Psychological
Radical Acceptance of the Unchangeable
Stop fighting what already happened to free energy for moving forward.
Psychological
Five-Sense Self-Soothe
Use every sense deliberately to soothe your nervous system.
Psychological
Universalizing Test
Your negative self-thought — if 100 people who know you heard it, how many would agree?
Psychological
Perfectionism Ruler
Define where your "good enough" is on a 0-100 ruler, to know when to stop.
Psychological
RAIN Meditation
Recognize, Allow, Investigate, Nurture — four steps to heal a hard emotion.
Psychological
Soothing Self-Touch
Place hand on heart or cheek 2 min — your body knows kindness.
Psychological
Parts Identification (IFS)
Within you are parts — critic, scared, child. Meet them one by one.
Psychological
Protector Appreciation
Parts you hate in yourself (denier, procrastinator) are protectors — thank them.