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Professional
Pre-Mortem
Before executing decision, imagine it failed in a year, enumerate most likely failure causes.
Psychological
ACCEPTS for Constructive Distraction
Seven distraction routes giving you minutes of safe survival until the wave passes.
Psychological
Daily Negative Visualization
Morning, imagine losing what you have — to appreciate not take for granted.
Social
Negative Inquiry
When criticized, ask: "what specifically in X bothers you?" — forces clarity.
Digital & AI
Explicit Negative Constraints
State explicitly what you do not want in the output (words, styles, assumptions) to cut later editing.
Digital & AI
Constructively Handling Public Criticism and Hate
Set a pre-defined protocol for sorting comments: constructive criticism deserving a reply, or passing hate deserving only ignoring and blocking.
Professional
Exit Interview Crafting
When resigning, write 3 highly constructive notes you leave behind — to make a difference.
Professional
Weekly Feedback Habit
Every Friday, write 3 feedbacks (positive + constructive) for 3 people and deliver by Monday.
Digital & AI
Effectively Managing Your Google Self-Search Result
When you find a negative or outdated result searching your name, apply a clear protocol: update, request removal, or bury with stronger content.
Psychological
Evidence For-Against Dialogue
Put your negative thought on trial: what's the evidence for and against? Then judge.
Psychological
Counter-Statements
For each negative thought, frame 3 counter-statements with evidence.
Psychological
Downward Arrow Technique
Under every negative thought, deeper one. Reveal with "what does this mean?"
Psychological
Universalization Question
Your negative thought — if someone else thought it, would you agree?
Psychological
Learned Optimism (ABCDE)
With each negative: A (event), B (belief), C (consequence), D (dispute), E (energization).
Parenting
Pretend-Play Scaffolding Through Progressive Stages
Pretend play develops through stages — from simple imitation to complex narratives — and your involvement must scale with it.
Psychological
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Automatic Thought Record
Catch today's most painful automatic thought and break it into facts and alternative interpretations.
Psychological
Small Wins Diary
Log 3 small wins daily — trains brain to see positive.
Leadership
Disagreeing with Your Boss Productively
Use the format "I agree on X, but I see a risk in Y, and suggest Z" instead of silence or unstructured direct opposition.
Psychological
Universalizing Test
Your negative self-thought — if 100 people who know you heard it, how many would agree?
Psychological
Common Humanity Reflection
In your suffering, recall that millions live similarly now — you're not alone.
Psychological
View from Above
Imagine yourself from above, then orbit, then galaxy — your issues shrink.
Professional
SBI Feedback Model
Deliver effective feedback in 3 parts (Situation—Behavior—Impact) so the other person hears you without defensiveness.
Professional
Not-To-Do List
5 things NOT to do this month.
Professional
Index Fund Investing
Instead of stock-picking, invest monthly in low-fee index fund and forget it.
Social
The "Seen, No Reply" Anxiety
When you see the blue read-receipt marks with no reply, run a 3-step protocol instead of watching your phone.
Administrative
Non-Delegatable Task List
Explicitly write a list of 3-5 tasks you never delegate, and delegate everything else without hesitation.
Administrative
Future-State Value-Stream Map
After understanding current state: draw the "after" version and steps to get there.
Leadership
Inversion Thinking (Munger)
Instead of asking "how do I succeed?" ask "what guarantees failure?" then avoid it.
Leadership
Steelmanning the Opposition
Before refuting an opposing view, write its strongest version honestly.
Leadership
Build a Hard Conversation with DESC
4 steps: Describe (situation), Express (impact), Specify (change), Consequences (outcomes).
Leadership
Anatomy of a Difficult Conversation (Stone & Heen)
3 conversations within every difficult one: "what happened", "feelings", "identity". Separate them and succeed.
Leadership
Listening Before Advising: The 3:1 Rule
In every leadership conversation, listen 3 minutes for every 1 you speak. Advice after understanding, not before.
Leadership
Kill the Company: Self-Disruption Exercise
Gather team, ask: "How could you destroy our company in 5 yrs?". Answers = vulnerabilities to fix before a competitor does.
Digital & AI
Feed Curation: Deliberate Following
Every account you follow builds your feed. Remove harmful, keep building, add teachers.
Digital & AI
Online Reputation Repair
For each bad Google result: either delete (if legal) or bury under stronger content.
Digital & AI
Systematic Unfollow Audit
Review every account you follow with one strict criterion: does it add real value, or does it drain your mood? Neutrality isn't reason enough to stay.
Digital & AI
Social Comparison Awareness Journal
Log every time you feel envy or inadequacy after seeing a post — awareness of the pattern is the first step to breaking the deliberately designed comparison trap.
Parenting
Co-Viewing Quality Over Quantity Framing
Sitting beside your child during screen time isn't enough — 3 in-scene questions turn passive sitting into actual dialogue.
Digital & AI
Diverse Few-Shot (Not Similar)
In few-shot, deliberate variety (positive/negative/edge case) matters more than count.
Digital & AI
RAG-Style Context Loading
Before asking AI, paste relevant docs/refs. It answers from "your knowledge", not its imagination.
Psychological
RAIN Meditation
Recognize, Allow, Investigate, Nurture — four steps to heal a hard emotion.
Psychological
Rewriting Failure Story
The story you tell about failure shapes your feeling — rewrite with broader truth.
Social
3-Layer Daily Gratitude
Each evening: event + person + a hard angle that held good — anxiety prophylaxis.
Leadership
Communicating Bad News to a Team (Structured Approach)
Use a 4-part frame (Fact, Context, Impact, Path forward) to deliver hard news without sugarcoating or panic.
Parenting
Do Instead of Don't
Convert every "don't do" into "do" — the child's brain doesn't process negation easily.
Parenting
The YouTube Algorithm Awareness Conversation
Explain to your child the next video isn't chance — an algorithm designed to keep him longer, not to serve him.
Digital & AI
Co-Viewing vs. Solo-Screen Time
When your child watches content, watch with them and comment and ask — the difference between a screen that educates and one that numbs is your presence.