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Social
Team Psychological-Safety Check
Anonymously ask Edmondson's three questions to score your team's psychological safety.
Leadership
Building Psychological Safety on Edmondson's Model
Teams with high psychological safety perform 4x better. This exercise measures and raises it in your team.
Psychological
Mountain Meditation
Imagine self as mountain — storms pass, you remain.
Leadership
Holding Steady Under Stakeholder Pressure
When stakeholders pressure you to abandon a necessary change because it's "uncomfortable", distinguish pressure that warrants stopping from pressure that's just expected resistance to change.
Leadership
Psychological Safety Specifically for Idea-Sharing
Design a "no immediate criticism" rule for the first 10 minutes of any brainstorm — raw ideas die fast if judged before they mature.
Leadership
Psychological Safety Check (Edmondson)
Measure with 7 questions whether your team feels safe to tell truths, ask questions, admit mistakes.
Leadership
Psychological Safety Address
Write a speech or message declaring your commitment to a fail-safe environment.
Psychological
Inner Citadel
Within you is an unconquerable citadel — every event only knocks at its door.
Psychological
Self as Context
You aren't your thoughts or feelings — you're the context they happen in.
Professional
Rehearse Expected No
Imagine worst "no" before negotiation — respond flexibly vs shocked.
Parenting
Managing Holiday/Travel Routine Disruption
Keep 3 fixed "anchors" from your child's routine during travel — the rest of the routine can flex freely.
Parenting
Limit with Empathy
Say firm "no" with warm "I understand" — Janet Lansbury's classic formula.
Psychological
Hundred Returns
Every time mind wanders, return — meditation isn't stillness, it's return.
Leadership
The 90-Day Plan (Watkins)
In transition to a new role: 30 days listen, 30 plan, 30 execute. Avoid "prove myself immediately" trap.
Psychological
Observing Self: Who Notices?
Discover the constant "I" that has witnessed every changing thought and feeling.
Psychological
"I Am Safe Now" Anchor
In flashback, anchor present with 3 sensory facts.
Professional
Side Project Portfolio
Create simple page showcasing 3 personal side projects — sells your competence beyond resume.
Parenting
Unconditional-Regard Language Practice
Practice sentences that separate your love from your child's performance — love isn't earned or withdrawn.
Parenting
The Sibling Rivalry Root-Cause Conversation
Surface rivalry (a toy, attention) often hides a deeper need — one question uncovers it for each side separately.
Digital & AI
Comment Section Sanity
Don't read every comment. Read only questions. Ignore praise & insults equally.
Digital & AI
Constructively Handling Public Criticism and Hate
Set a pre-defined protocol for sorting comments: constructive criticism deserving a reply, or passing hate deserving only ignoring and blocking.
Psychological
Box Breathing 4-4-4-4
Four equal-length breath segments to regulate your nervous system in five minutes.
Psychological
The "And Then What?" Decatastrophizing Chain
Run the catastrophe scenario through to the end instead of stopping at peak terror.
Psychological
ABC Model Map
Event (A) → Belief (B) → Consequence (C): break the assumption that events cause emotions directly.
Psychological
Leaves on a Stream
Place each thought on a leaf and watch it drift down a stream.
Psychological
Naming Thoughts: "My Mind Is Telling Me..."
Prefix every thought with "my mind is telling me..." to see you are not it.
Psychological
Daily Behavioral Activation
In depression, exit "wait until I feel better" to "do then feel".
Psychological
Willingness vs Willfulness
Willingness to accept reality as is, not willfulness rejecting it — subtle but powerful.
Psychological
One Committed Action
No paralyzing "big plan" — one tangible action aligned with your value within 24 hrs.
Psychological
Three-Minute Breathing Space
One min awareness, one min breath, one min expansion — pocket tool under pressure.
Psychological
Loving-Kindness for Self
Repeat 4 wishes to yourself sincerely: peace, health, happiness, kindness.
Psychological
Common Humanity Reflection
In your suffering, recall that millions live similarly now — you're not alone.
Psychological
Self-Compassion Mantras
3 short phrases to memorize for self-collapse moments.
Psychological
View from Above
Imagine yourself from above, then orbit, then galaxy — your issues shrink.
Psychological
Externalizing the Problem
Instead of "I am depressed", say "depression visits me" — problem loses grip.
Psychological
Window of Tolerance Map
Each has tolerance window — below it numbness, above it explosion. Map yours.
Psychological
Unsent Thank-You Letter
Write thanks letter unsent — for yourself.
Psychological
Daily Random Kindness
One random kind act daily — lifts your mood more than recipient.
Professional
Energy Drain Audit
Track every energy drain for a week, then eliminate or reduce three — and half your lost energy returns.
Professional
Strategic Silence
After hard question, 5-sec silence — opponent fills void with concession.
Professional
Mirror Last 3 Words
Repeat last 3 words in questioning tone — opponent elaborates.
Professional
Visualize Negotiation Partner
Before negotiation, imagine opponent with all pressures — empathize.
Professional
Authentic Scarcity
Don't lie — state real scarcity in your time or offer.
Professional
Reframe "Expensive" to "Investment"
"Expensive" focuses on cost. "Investment" focuses on return.
Professional
Negotiate With Self First
Before negotiation, negotiate with self: want? accept? refuse?
Professional
Weekly Feedback Habit
Every Friday, write 3 feedbacks (positive + constructive) for 3 people and deliver by Monday.
Professional
Annual Theme
Instead of New Year resolutions, pick one "theme" (year of health, year of depth...).
Professional
Goal Mortality Audit
Every 90 days, honestly kill goals no longer relevant — don't leave them dangling.
Professional
50/30/20 Budget
Allocate income: 50% needs, 30% wants, 20% savings/investing/debt.
Professional
Self-Compassion Break
On failure, 3 sentences: "this is suffering. Suffering is human. I treat self kindly".
Social
Five-Layer Boundary Map
Map your boundaries across five layers (physical, emotional, time, material, digital) on a single page.
Social
Broken Record for Repeated Pressure
Repeat the same refusal in the same words calmly, no matter how the other person reshapes the pressure.
Social
Validate the Feeling Before Advice
Name your speaker's feeling and confirm it is reasonable, before you propose any solution.
Administrative
Project Pre-Mortem
Before starting, imagine the project failed in six months and write down why.
Administrative
WOOP Implementation Intentions
Four steps: Wish, Outcome, Obstacle, Plan — turn intention into behavior.
Administrative
10-10-10 Test
How will I feel about this decision in 10 minutes, 10 months, 10 years?
Administrative
Vendor Scoring Matrix
Don't pick vendor "by gut" — score on 6 dimensions with weights, pick by points.
Leadership
10-10-10 Decision Rule (Suzy Welch)
Before any hard choice, ask: what is the consequence in 10 minutes? 10 months? 10 years?
Leadership
Pre-Commitment Device
Lock yourself out of the weak option before you face it — via financial or public stake that's hard to undo.
Leadership
Sunk Cost Release
Effort and money already spent are unrecoverable — ignore them when evaluating continue vs exit.