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Social
Team Psychological-Safety Check
Anonymously ask Edmondson's three questions to score your team's psychological safety.
Leadership
Building Psychological Safety on Edmondson's Model
Teams with high psychological safety perform 4x better. This exercise measures and raises it in your team.
Leadership
Psychological Safety Specifically for Idea-Sharing
Design a "no immediate criticism" rule for the first 10 minutes of any brainstorm — raw ideas die fast if judged before they mature.
Leadership
Psychological Safety Check (Edmondson)
Measure with 7 questions whether your team feels safe to tell truths, ask questions, admit mistakes.
Leadership
Psychological Safety Address
Write a speech or message declaring your commitment to a fail-safe environment.
Leadership
10-10-10 Decision Rule (Suzy Welch)
Before any hard choice, ask: what is the consequence in 10 minutes? 10 months? 10 years?
Leadership
Sunk Cost Release
Effort and money already spent are unrecoverable — ignore them when evaluating continue vs exit.
Digital & AI
Social Comparison Awareness Journal
Log every time you feel envy or inadequacy after seeing a post — awareness of the pattern is the first step to breaking the deliberately designed comparison trap.
Psychological
Observing Self: Who Notices?
Discover the constant "I" that has witnessed every changing thought and feeling.
Parenting
The Sibling Rivalry Root-Cause Conversation
Surface rivalry (a toy, attention) often hides a deeper need — one question uncovers it for each side separately.
Digital & AI
Comment Section Sanity
Don't read every comment. Read only questions. Ignore praise & insults equally.
Digital & AI
Constructively Handling Public Criticism and Hate
Set a pre-defined protocol for sorting comments: constructive criticism deserving a reply, or passing hate deserving only ignoring and blocking.
Psychological
Box Breathing 4-4-4-4
Four equal-length breath segments to regulate your nervous system in five minutes.
Psychological
The "And Then What?" Decatastrophizing Chain
Run the catastrophe scenario through to the end instead of stopping at peak terror.
Psychological
ABC Model Map
Event (A) → Belief (B) → Consequence (C): break the assumption that events cause emotions directly.
Psychological
Leaves on a Stream
Place each thought on a leaf and watch it drift down a stream.
Psychological
Naming Thoughts: "My Mind Is Telling Me..."
Prefix every thought with "my mind is telling me..." to see you are not it.
Psychological
Daily Behavioral Activation
In depression, exit "wait until I feel better" to "do then feel".
Psychological
Self as Context
You aren't your thoughts or feelings — you're the context they happen in.
Psychological
Willingness vs Willfulness
Willingness to accept reality as is, not willfulness rejecting it — subtle but powerful.
Psychological
One Committed Action
No paralyzing "big plan" — one tangible action aligned with your value within 24 hrs.
Psychological
Passing Thoughts Box
Thoughts aren't facts or orders — guests passing through.
Psychological
Three-Minute Breathing Space
One min awareness, one min breath, one min expansion — pocket tool under pressure.
Psychological
Loving-Kindness for Self
Repeat 4 wishes to yourself sincerely: peace, health, happiness, kindness.
Psychological
Common Humanity Reflection
In your suffering, recall that millions live similarly now — you're not alone.
Psychological
Self-Compassion Mantras
3 short phrases to memorize for self-collapse moments.
Psychological
View from Above
Imagine yourself from above, then orbit, then galaxy — your issues shrink.
Psychological
Inner Citadel
Within you is an unconquerable citadel — every event only knocks at its door.
Psychological
Externalizing the Problem
Instead of "I am depressed", say "depression visits me" — problem loses grip.
Psychological
Window of Tolerance Map
Each has tolerance window — below it numbness, above it explosion. Map yours.
Psychological
Unsent Thank-You Letter
Write thanks letter unsent — for yourself.
Psychological
Daily Random Kindness
One random kind act daily — lifts your mood more than recipient.
Professional
Energy Drain Audit
Track every energy drain for a week, then eliminate or reduce three — and half your lost energy returns.
Professional
Strategic Silence
After hard question, 5-sec silence — opponent fills void with concession.
Professional
Mirror Last 3 Words
Repeat last 3 words in questioning tone — opponent elaborates.
Professional
Rehearse Expected No
Imagine worst "no" before negotiation — respond flexibly vs shocked.
Professional
Visualize Negotiation Partner
Before negotiation, imagine opponent with all pressures — empathize.
Professional
Authentic Scarcity
Don't lie — state real scarcity in your time or offer.
Professional
Negotiate With Self First
Before negotiation, negotiate with self: want? accept? refuse?
Professional
Goal Mortality Audit
Every 90 days, honestly kill goals no longer relevant — don't leave them dangling.
Professional
50/30/20 Budget
Allocate income: 50% needs, 30% wants, 20% savings/investing/debt.
Professional
Self-Compassion Break
On failure, 3 sentences: "this is suffering. Suffering is human. I treat self kindly".
Social
Five-Layer Boundary Map
Map your boundaries across five layers (physical, emotional, time, material, digital) on a single page.
Social
Validate the Feeling Before Advice
Name your speaker's feeling and confirm it is reasonable, before you propose any solution.
Social
Right to Change Mind
You have the right to change your mind without justification — old promise doesn't bind forever.
Social
Prayer for Wrongdoer
Weekly, pray well for someone who wronged you — you're freed before he knows.
Social
Renegotiate Parental Expectations
Renegotiate parental expectations (career, marriage, presence) in a calm structured talk.
Administrative
Project Pre-Mortem
Before starting, imagine the project failed in six months and write down why.
Administrative
WOOP Implementation Intentions
Four steps: Wish, Outcome, Obstacle, Plan — turn intention into behavior.
Administrative
10-10-10 Test
How will I feel about this decision in 10 minutes, 10 months, 10 years?
Administrative
Recurring Meeting Purge
Per recurring meeting: "does it produce decision/action?" — if no, kill it.
Leadership
Knowledge Reversal Test
Imagine entering the decision with what you know today — would you still make it?
Leadership
Consistency Check with Past Decisions
Compare your current decision to past decisions in similar situations — are you consistent or contradicting?
Leadership
Diagnosing Your Reaction to Feedback
3 triggers reject valid feedback: Truth, Relationship, Identity. Know which fires in you.
Leadership
Context, Not Control (Netflix)
Instead of directing reports, give them full context to decide confidently themselves. You do this as leader.
Leadership
Power Pose Before High-Stakes Moments
2 min in a power pose before meeting/pitch = cortisol -25% + testosterone +20%.
Leadership
Sunk Cost Culture Audit
Identify projects team continues because "we invested" not because they deserve it.
Leadership
Strategic Silence in Major Announcements
After any impactful announcement, deliberately pause 24-48 hours before extra detail — let people absorb before you flood them with more talk.
Parenting
Weekly Kindness Curriculum
A small act of kindness your child plans weekly — builds the moral brain early.
Parenting
Mistake Celebration
At dinner, each family member shares his biggest mistake of the day — normalizes failure and reinforces growth mindset.