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Social
Replace "Always/Never" With "Today/Now"
In fights, "you always..." is a no-return point. Swap with "today I noticed...".
Digital & AI
Replace 3 Apps with Analog
Paper book vs Kindle, paper vs Notes, watch vs phone clock.
Digital & AI
Personal Audit: Automation vs Replacement?
For each task automated with AI, ask: "Freed for higher value, or replaced my learning?".
Digital & AI
Replacing the Scroll Trigger With a Substitute Habit
Don't try to stop scrolling through willpower alone — replace the trigger itself (boredom, anxiety) with a predefined alternative action within 3 seconds.
Parenting
Choice Over Command
Offer your child two bounded choices instead of a direct command — cuts resistance 70%.
Digital & AI
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CRTF Prompt Structure: Context-Role-Task-Format
Write a prompt that gives the AI model precise context, role, task, and expected format.
Digital & AI
Ask the Model to Write the Prompt
Don't know how to ask? Ask: "What's the best prompt to get X?" — it writes a prompt better than any expert.
Digital & AI
Replace Scroll with Substitute Behavior
Each scroll-urge, execute pre-defined substitute (10 breath cycles, drink water, 5 squats).
Parenting
Do Instead of Don't
Convert every "don't do" into "do" — the child's brain doesn't process negation easily.
Administrative
Mediating Conflicting Stakeholders
When stakeholder A wants X, B wants opposite: don't pick — surface underlying interests.
Digital & AI
Internal Trigger Map (Eyal)
Identify 5 feelings that make you open phone. Per feeling, alternative plan pre-touch.
Psychological
Inner Critic vs Compassionate Voice Journal
Log what your inner critic says one day — rewrite in compassionate voice.
Psychological
No-Screen First 30 Min
First 30 min of day — no phone. Everything changes.
Psychological
Overgeneralization Decoding
"Always", "never", "everyone", "no one" signal overgeneralization.
Psychological
"I Am Safe Now" Anchor
In flashback, anchor present with 3 sensory facts.
Professional
Edit by Subtraction
After draft, cut every word not serving meaning — target: cut 50% of words.
Professional
Hemingway-Style Self-Edit
Edit draft Hemingway-style: short sentences, simple words, no flashy adverbs.
Professional
Self-1 vs Self-2
Self-1 (critic) sabotages Self-2 (doer) — watch inner dialogue during performance.
Administrative
After-Action Review (AAR)
After each phase: what happened? What did we expect? Why the gap? How do we learn?
Administrative
Leading vs Lagging Indicators
Leading predicts, lagging describes past — know each KPI's place.
Digital & AI
Sensitive Data Redaction Before Prompting
Before pasting anything in AI: redact names, numbers, emails, financial data.
Digital & AI
XML Delimiters for Clear Separation
Separate prompt parts with XML tags (instructions, examples, document) so the model handles each precisely.
Digital & AI
Iterative Refinement, Not Restart
Instead of rewriting the prompt, say "this part good. this part fix to X". 4 rounds = perfect output.
Psychological
Ten-Values Compass
Identify the living values you want guiding behavior across ten life domains.
Psychological
Willingness to Hold Discomfort
Open your hand to uncomfortable feelings instead of clenching — and watch them soften.
Psychological
Willingness vs Willfulness
Willingness to accept reality as is, not willfulness rejecting it — subtle but powerful.
Professional
Third-Party Introduction
Instead of cold outreach, ask mutual connection for warm intro with ready phrasing.
Social
SOLER Listening Posture
Use five body cues (Square, Open, Lean, Eye contact, Relaxed) to make your speaker feel safe.
Social
The Apology-Free No
Say no in three sentences: thanks, refusal, closing — with no "sorry" or justification.
Social
Validate the Feeling Before Advice
Name your speaker's feeling and confirm it is reasonable, before you propose any solution.
Social
The Four-Step Specific Apology
Apologize with: name the act, the impact, take ownership, repair step. No "sorry if...".
Social
Self-Compassion Break
In suffering, apply Neff's 3 steps: acknowledge, common humanity, self-kindness.
Social
Flip to "What If I Succeed?"
Instead of "what if I fail?", ask "what if I fully succeed? What would it look like?".
Social
Powerful GROW Questions
Practice asking open GROW questions instead of giving advice in every mentoring meeting.
Social
Graceful Exit From a Text Thread
End a drawn-out text thread with a warm closing line instead of silently fading out.
Social
Discover Their Real Love Language
Don't assume your partner's love language — test it with three situations this week and compare reactions.
Administrative
ICE Scoring for Initiatives
Score each initiative Impact x Confidence x Ease (1-10 each), execute by score order.
Administrative
Go to the Gemba
Don't analyze a problem from your desk. Go where it happens and observe 30 minutes before suggesting a fix.
Administrative
Monthly Risk Register
List your top 10 risks with probability, impact, and owner; review the first Monday each month.
Administrative
Annual Theme Instead of Resolutions
A single theme-word guides your year's decisions instead of forgotten resolutions.
Administrative
The Perfect Delegation Email (7 Sentences)
A 7-sentence formula that conveys a task clearly enough that the employee won't come back with "what did you mean?"
Administrative
Three-Point Estimation (PERT)
For each task estimate: optimistic, most-likely, pessimistic — then compute expected.
Administrative
Consult 5 Different People
Before big decisions, consult 5 from varied lenses (expertise, age, culture, bias).
Administrative
Worst-Best-Expected Scenario Analysis
Each big decision: 3 numeric scenarios, not "hope for the best".
Administrative
Exception-Only Reporting
Don't report what went as expected. Report only what breached the allowed threshold — silence is reassurance.
Administrative
The Andon Cord: Everyone's Stop Authority
Give every employee the right to halt the process instantly upon spotting a defect, without waiting for manager approval.
Administrative
Hunting the 8 Wastes (Muda)
Scan your process for eight specific waste types, not vague general waste.
Administrative
New-Member Buddy System
Every new member gets a peer "buddy" (not their manager) for the first 30 days to ask any "silly" question.
Administrative
Stakeholder Communication Cadence Plan
For every stakeholder, explicitly define: how often, which channel, what level of detail — no randomly-timed communication.
Administrative
Managing the Difficult Stakeholder
Before labeling someone "difficult", diagnose the specific type: are they anxious, ignored, or genuinely conflicted in interest?
Administrative
Stakeholder Expectation-Reset Conversation
When you realize you won't meet a past promise, announce it early in a specific format — don't wait until the deadline for the stakeholder to discover it themselves.
Leadership
Crafting a Big Hairy Audacious Goal (BHAG)
Define one 10-25 year goal so audacious it scares you, uniting leadership around a single ambition.
Leadership
Annual Theme in Two Words
Pick two words that summarize the year's priority, replacing many goals with one shared focus.
Leadership
Defining the North Star Metric
Pick one metric that measures the value delivered to your customer, anchoring every decision to its success.
Leadership
Build SBI Feedback for Reports
Frame feedback in 3 sentences: Situation, Behavior, Impact — strips bias, refocuses on behavior.
Leadership
Experimentation Mindset for Adaptive Problems
There's no ready solution for adaptive problems — treat your next solution as a small learnable experiment, not a final plan that must succeed on the first try.
Parenting
Time-In
Sit with your child in his upset instead of isolating him — your presence regulates his nervous system.
Parenting
Natural Consequences Over Punishment
Let reality teach your child when safe — stronger than any imposed punishment.
Parenting
Time-In Instead of Time-Out
Instead of isolating a dysregulated child, draw closer — Daniel Siegel's principle.
Parenting
Sibling Fight Mediation
Don't judge between your kids in a fight — teach them to resolve via 5-step protocol.