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Professional
25 Headlines
For each article/post, write 25 headlines before picking one — last 5 win quality.
Psychological
Noting Practice
Label thought "thought", then let go — don't build on it.
Professional
One Idea Per Paragraph
Each paragraph = one idea. If two ideas, split.
Social
Restructure a Troubling Belief
Trigger event → thought → distortion → counter-evidence → reframe.
Leadership
The "Front Page Test" for Decisions
Before any sensitive decision, ask: if published with full detail on tomorrow's front page, would I defend it with pride or look for an exit?
Social
Restructure "Everyone Is Judging Me"
Dissect the thought: evidence? Real ratio? What are others actually doing?
Leadership
Saying Yes to a Bad-Seeming Idea to Test It Cheaply
When an idea seems intuitively bad but its test cost is low, approve it as a cheap experiment instead of rejecting it on intuition alone.
Social
Break Isolation With Tea Invite
Invite one person weekly for a simple 30-min tea — builds community fabric from zero.
Leadership
Pretotyping: Test Idea Before Building
Before building full product, test with "fake prototype" (10× simpler than MVP). Saves months + tens of thousands.
Psychological
Socratic Dialogue with a Stubborn Thought
Interrogate your thought with seven Socratic questions until it loses automatic authority.
Psychological
Naming Thoughts: "My Mind Is Telling Me..."
Prefix every thought with "my mind is telling me..." to see you are not it.
Professional
High Anchor Strategy
Open higher than expected — becomes anchor for negotiation.
Professional
First 90-Day Plan
In new role, listen 30 days, plan 30, execute 30 — don't reverse order.
Social
FORD Topics for First Conversations
Use Family-Occupation-Recreation-Dreams as four safe entry doors for any new conversation.
Professional
Eat the Frog First
Start your day with the hardest, ugliest task before anything else — nothing scary remains for the rest of the day.
Psychological
Chain Analysis
Track what happened before the blow-up, where the chain could have broken.
Administrative
First-Hour Communications Plan
First hour of crisis: who to inform, what to say, how.
Administrative
ICE Scoring for Ideas
Score each idea on Impact, Confidence, Ease — pick the highest sum.
Professional
Value-First Outreach Message
Open outreach with concrete value you offer (an article, opportunity, intro) before any ask — response rates rise 5x.
Parenting
Finding Your Parent Community — Breaking Isolation
Parent isolation is the most hidden burden of special needs — actively seek parents who understand without explanation.
Administrative
Scope-Creep Guardrail
For every new addition request mid-project, apply one rule: it enters in exchange for something leaving, or waits for the next release.
Parenting
Free Play Priority
Protect one hour daily of unstructured free play — it's your child's most important school.
Digital & AI
In-Person Priority Over Digital
For every 3 important digital chats with someone, schedule one real meeting.
Psychological
One Committed Action
No paralyzing "big plan" — one tangible action aligned with your value within 24 hrs.
Professional
Cost-of-Delay Calc
For each delayed decision, compute weekly cost of delay financially or in opportunity.
Social
Share Your Failure Story First
To open trust in a new team, share your failure first — others will open up.
Administrative
New Vendor 90-Day Check-In
90 days into contract: review with vendor — don't wait for renewal to find issues.
Administrative
Wiki Home Page Design
One page answering "where do I find X?" for 80% of team questions.
Administrative
Task Audit Then Automate
Don't automate before knowing what's worth it — log a week, analyze, then act.
Administrative
Incident Commander Assignment
In crisis: one person leads, all report to them, fast decisions — not "committee".
Psychological
"I'm a Failure" Audit
"I'm a failure" needs 5 evidence + 5 counter. Write them.
Social
25-Headlines Opener Generator
Before the event, generate 25 possible openers — pick the strongest — don't freeze in the first 2 seconds.
Social
ABC Trace for an Anger Flare
In anger, dissect: Antecedent → Belief → Consequence.
Administrative
Morning Huddle
Open each day with 10 minutes standing: each person's top priority today and any blockers.
Parenting
The Family Evening Decompression Routine
The first hour after everyone returns home shapes the entire evening's mood — design it consciously instead of leaving it to chance.
Psychological
Memento Mori
Daily remember you will die — clears priorities fast.
Psychological
Habit Tracker Grid
X in a box every day you do habit — don't break the chain.
Psychological
Counter-Statements
For each negative thought, frame 3 counter-statements with evidence.
Psychological
Downward Arrow Technique
Under every negative thought, deeper one. Reveal with "what does this mean?"
Professional
Compelling Hook
Open with shocking question, surprising stat, or personal story — grab first 5 seconds.
Social
Positive Assertion
Praise self publicly when deserved: "I did well" — breaks toxic humility.
Administrative
90-Day Plan for a New Role
Three phases: learn (30), diagnose (60), first win (90).
Leadership
One-Team-One-Dream Session
A 3-hour session that breaks silos between teams and unites them around a goal larger than their own department.
Leadership
Annual Theme in Two Words
Pick two words that summarize the year's priority, replacing many goals with one shared focus.
Psychological
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Automatic Thought Record
Catch today's most painful automatic thought and break it into facts and alternative interpretations.
Psychological
Leaves on a Stream
Place each thought on a leaf and watch it drift down a stream.
Psychological
Evidence For-Against Dialogue
Put your negative thought on trial: what's the evidence for and against? Then judge.
Psychological
Passing Thoughts Box
Thoughts aren't facts or orders — guests passing through.
Psychological
Raisin Eating Meditation
Eat one raisin with full awareness — discover a world in a particle.
Psychological
Last Day Reflection
Simple morning question revealing what was postponed and shouldn't be.
Psychological
Universalization Question
Your negative thought — if someone else thought it, would you agree?
Psychological
STOP Skill
Stop, breathe, observe, proceed mindfully — 4 steps in 30 sec.
Professional
BLUF Email (Bottom Line Up Front)
Start every email with one sentence containing the bottom line and the ask — recipients reply 3x faster.
Professional
Grayscale Phone
Turn phone to grayscale — reduces appeal 50%+.
Professional
Real-Time Not Saved
Don't hoard feedback until annual review — give within 24 hours of event.
Professional
360 Self-Audit
Each quarter, ask 6 people around you the same 3 open questions about your performance.
Professional
Self-Compassion Break
On failure, 3 sentences: "this is suffering. Suffering is human. I treat self kindly".
Social
Listening Without Solving
When he complains, don't solve — listen, empathize, ask "what do you need from me?".
Social
Other's POV
Before judging behavior, imagine context from other's view for 30 sec.
Social
Refocus Attention Outward
When anxiety hijacks attention, silently name 5 colors in the room — attention leaves the body.