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Professional
Compassion Fatigue Check
If in helping work, answer 5 monthly questions revealing compassion fatigue.
Parenting
Limit with Empathy
Say firm "no" with warm "I understand" — Janet Lansbury's classic formula.
Psychological
Self-Compassion Mantras
3 short phrases to memorize for self-collapse moments.
Digital & AI
Monthly Self-Search
Each month's start, search your name on Google and review the first 3 result pages.
Psychological
Self Bilateral Stimulation
Tap thighs alternately (right, left) 30 sec — soothes small trauma.
Professional
360 Self-Audit
Each quarter, ask 6 people around you the same 3 open questions about your performance.
Social
Self-Compassion Break
In suffering, apply Neff's 3 steps: acknowledge, common humanity, self-kindness.
Digital & AI
Self-Critique: Review Your Own Answer
After the model answers, ask it to critique its own answer and improve it before final delivery.
Psychological
Compassionate Self-Talk
Imagine a friend in the same situation — what would you tell them? Tell yourself.
Psychological
Symbolic Self-Portrait
Draw self as symbol/animal/scene — discover self unconsciously.
Psychological
Self-Eulogy Writing
Write your eulogy as if delivered for you — discover deep values.
Professional
Self-Recorded Rehearsal
Record yourself rehearsing, then watch — discover unseen.
Professional
Self-Compassion Break
On failure, 3 sentences: "this is suffering. Suffering is human. I treat self kindly".
Social
Empathic Frame
Starting assumption: "people do their best with what they have".
Social
Time-Zone Empathy
Compute colleague's time before writing, use schedule-send to avoid sleep disruption.
Leadership
Kill the Company: Self-Disruption Exercise
Gather team, ask: "How could you destroy our company in 5 yrs?". Answers = vulnerabilities to fix before a competitor does.
Leadership
Pay-Equity Self-Audit for Managers
Before waiting for an official HR audit, compare your team's pay yourself by role and experience — imbalances are discovered faster from the inside.
Parenting
Building the Child's Own Self-Advocacy Skill
Teach your child to explain his own needs gradually — instead of remaining his only voice forever.
Digital & AI
Bio Voice Consistency
Your bio across platforms says same thing, same tone, same values. Even at different lengths.
Leadership
Greenleaf's 10 Principles of Servant Leadership
Self-rate on Robert Greenleaf's 10 classic principles. Where's the gap between what you say and what you do?
Parenting
Name the Need Behind the Behavior
Every difficult behavior hides an unmet need — practice the question that reveals it instead of judging it.
Parenting
Natural Consequences Over Punishment
Let reality teach your child when safe — stronger than any imposed punishment.
Psychological
Eulogy Writing
Write what you wish said at your funeral — discover deep values.
Psychological
Self Co-Regulation
Breathe with another body (partner or animal) — regulates nervous system.
Professional
Hemingway-Style Self-Edit
Edit draft Hemingway-style: short sentences, simple words, no flashy adverbs.
Social
Avoid Self-Hijack
When you feel "similar story" hijacking, resist — don't interrupt with yours.
Psychological
Universalization Question
Your negative thought — if someone else thought it, would you agree?
Parenting
Feeling Mirror
Name your child's feeling precisely before you try to fix the situation.
Social
Listening Without Solving
When he complains, don't solve — listen, empathize, ask "what do you need from me?".
Leadership
Trust Equation
Trust = (Credibility + Reliability + Intimacy) ÷ Self-Orientation. Rate each component with 5 people.
Psychological
Just-World Test
"People deserve what happens to them" — test on people you love.
Social
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Five Minutes of Full-Attention Listening
Give the other person five full minutes of attention with no interruption or advice, then summarize what you heard.
Social
Three-Sentence Reflective Listening
After hearing your partner, reflect back three sentences: content, feeling, and underlying value.
Social
Two-Chair Perspective Switch
Sit in your chair, then mentally move to the other person's chair and retell the situation from their view.
Social
The Generous Backstory
Invent at least three plausible reasons for a behavior that upset you, before you judge.
Social
Validate the Feeling Before Advice
Name your speaker's feeling and confirm it is reasonable, before you propose any solution.
Social
Silent Loving-Kindness for a Difficult Person
Silently repeat four well-wishes toward a person who upsets you, even if you do not feel it at first.
Social
Naming the Other's Feeling Precisely
Do not say "I know how you feel". Name the feeling with a precise word and verify it.
Parenting
Tell Me More
Replace investigative "why?" questions with the invitation "tell me more" to open the story.
Parenting
Five Emotion-Coaching Steps
Apply Gottman's five steps: notice, see emotion as opportunity, listen, label, set limits and solve.
Psychological
Spot the Ten Cognitive Distortions
Run your current thought through the list of ten to pinpoint exactly which mental trap caught you.
Psychological
Socratic Dialogue with a Stubborn Thought
Interrogate your thought with seven Socratic questions until it loses automatic authority.
Psychological
ACCEPTS for Constructive Distraction
Seven distraction routes giving you minutes of safe survival until the wave passes.
Psychological
Self-Compassion Friend Letter
Write what your dearest friend would say in your worst moment.
Psychological
Soothing Self-Touch
Place hand on heart or cheek 2 min — your body knows kindness.
Psychological
Loving-Kindness for Self
Repeat 4 wishes to yourself sincerely: peace, health, happiness, kindness.
Psychological
Stoic Evening Review
Every night 5 min: what did I do well, what wrong, what to improve?
Psychological
Window of Tolerance Map
Each has tolerance window — below it numbness, above it explosion. Map yours.
Professional
SBI Model
Phrase every feedback in 3 sentences: situation, specific behavior, impact — no interpretation.
Professional
Radical Candor 2x2
Sort your feedback on care personally × challenge directly — sweet spot: high in both.
Professional
Start-Stop-Continue Self
Each month, write 3 behaviors to start, 3 to stop, 3 to continue.
Social
Build an I-Statement in Four Parts
Frame your stance as: "When [behavior] I feel [feeling] because I need [value] and I request [ask]".
Social
Positive Assertion
Praise self publicly when deserved: "I did well" — breaks toxic humility.
Social
Label Other's Emotion Precisely
Replace "you seem upset" with wheel-precise: "you seem frustrated because...".
Administrative
Audit of "Only-Me" Tasks
Log every task you do for a full week, then tag: delegable / non-delegable.
Leadership
Listening Before Advising: The 3:1 Rule
In every leadership conversation, listen 3 minutes for every 1 you speak. Advice after understanding, not before.
Parenting
The Calm Corner
A safe home spot your child retreats to when feelings overflow — not punishment, a sanctuary.
Parenting
Unconditional-Regard Language Practice
Practice sentences that separate your love from your child's performance — love isn't earned or withdrawn.
Parenting
Avoiding the Parental "Peacekeeper" Trap
Your quick intervention to stop every squabble robs your children of learning to solve it themselves — deliberate delay beats over-hasty intervention.
Digital & AI
AI as Rubber Duck for Thinking
Explain your problem to the model out loud. You often find the solution while explaining, before its reply.