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Administrative
Architecture Decision Record (ADR)
Each significant decision: a text file with context, options, choice, consequences.
Parenting
Transition-to-Adulthood Planning for a Special-Needs Teen
The transition from a supportive school system to the adult world needs a plan starting in the teen years, not at sudden graduation.
Professional
BATNA Preparation
Define your Best Alternative before negotiating so you never accept a deal worse than what you already have.
Psychological
Worry Postponement Window
Log your worry now and postpone it to a designated 15-minute window in your day.
Professional
Reframe "Expensive" to "Investment"
"Expensive" focuses on cost. "Investment" focuses on return.
Social
Build an I-Statement in Four Parts
Frame your stance as: "When [behavior] I feel [feeling] because I need [value] and I request [ask]".
Leadership
Theory of Change: From Activity to Impact
Draw a logical chain: inputs → activities → outputs → outcomes → long-term impact.
Leadership
Translating Strategy into a Frontline-Repeatable Line
Test your strategy with one question: can a frontline employee repeat it verbatim to a customer?
Leadership
"Getting on the Balcony": The Observation Technique
Mid-meeting or mid-conflict, mentally step back and imagine watching from above — who's speaking? who's avoiding? what's the real pattern?
Professional
Interest-Based Reframe
Don't cling to position — find interest beneath. Flexibility without yielding.
Professional
Word Halving
For each sentence, delete half words — becomes stronger.
Administrative
Go to the Gemba
Don't analyze a problem from your desk. Go where it happens and observe 30 minutes before suggesting a fix.
Leadership
Getting on the Balcony: Seeing Dynamics
Mentally exit the meeting and look at it from above. What's really happening, beyond what's being said?
Leadership
Getting on the Dance Floor: Smart Intervention
After the balcony, you must descend. What's the smallest intervention opening the biggest change?
Parenting
Side-by-Side Conversation
With teens, shared activity opens dialogue more than face-to-face sitting.
Digital & AI
Replace 3 Apps with Analog
Paper book vs Kindle, paper vs Notes, watch vs phone clock.
Administrative
After-Action Review (AAR)
After each phase: what happened? What did we expect? Why the gap? How do we learn?
Administrative
Zero-Based Weekly Calendar
Empty next week's calendar entirely, then add back only what truly deserves a slot.
Administrative
Lightweight Business Continuity Plan
Each core operation: "what if it stops for a day?" with a backup plan.
Digital & AI
AI Brainstorming 10 Titles
Don't pick the first title that comes to mind. Generate 10 with varied angles, then choose the best.
Digital & AI
Testing 5 Thumbnails/Covers Before Publishing
Just as you brainstorm 10 titles, generate 5 different thumbnail/cover concepts, and pick via a small sample, not instinct alone.
Psychological
10-Min Body Scan
Move attention from feet to head, noticing each area without changing it.
Parenting
The Silent Car Conversation
Use the side-by-side (not face-to-face) car ride to open doors to hard talk.
Leadership
Porter's Five Forces: Dissecting Industry Profitability
Analyze five competitive forces to understand why your industry is profitable (or not) and who captures the value.
Psychological
5-4-3-2-1 Grounding
5 see, 4 touch, 3 hear, 2 smell, 1 taste — quick return to present.
Psychological
Hope: Three Pathways
Per goal, 3 ways — so you don't collapse if one blocks.
Professional
GROW Coaching Question
Instead of solutions, ask GROW: Goal-Reality-Options-Will — let person craft his solution.
Professional
Identity Goals
Instead of "I want to run a marathon", say "I'm a runner" — identity drives behavior.
Professional
Conference Goal Setting
Before any conference, set 3 people to meet and 3 questions for each.
Social
Five-Layer Boundary Map
Map your boundaries across five layers (physical, emotional, time, material, digital) on a single page.
Social
The Apology-Free No
Say no in three sentences: thanks, refusal, closing — with no "sorry" or justification.
Social
Shared Need Question
Deep in conflict, ask: "What is the shared need we are both trying to meet?"
Social
SBI Peer Feedback
Deliver specific SBI feedback to a peer within 48 hours of the event.
Administrative
Advanced Eisenhower Matrix
Sort 20 tasks from your list into only two quadrants: important-not-urgent and important-urgent.
Administrative
ICE Scoring for Ideas
Score each idea on Impact, Confidence, Ease — pick the highest sum.
Administrative
The "Never Delegate This" List
Identify 5-7 tasks that must stay with you, so you delegate everything else with peace.
Administrative
Project Risk Register
A living table of every project risk: probability, impact, owner, action.
Administrative
Decision Matrix With 5 Axes
Compare options across 5 weighted axes; compute the highest sum.
Administrative
Fishbone: Cause-Effect Diagram
Draw a "fish skeleton" of the problem: head = issue, bones = cause categories.
Administrative
Define the North Star Metric
One number summarizing your product's value to customer — every decision serves it.
Administrative
Dashboard Hygiene
Every quarter: review dashboard — drop unused, add needed, refresh targets.
Administrative
Monthly Variance Analysis
Monthly: planned vs actual — focus on variances >5%, dig into causes.
Administrative
Post-Mortem Library
Each major incident/issue: written post-mortem — saved in searchable library.
Administrative
FAQ from Support Tickets
Track last 100 support tickets — top 20 repeats = your FAQ page.
Administrative
Onboarding Wiki
New hire week 1: one page with everything they need — not "ask so-and-so".
Administrative
Keyboard Shortcut Audit
Per daily-used tool: learn 5 shortcuts — minutes/day saved = hours/year.
Administrative
Post-Incident Review
After major incident: full review — timeline, causes, improvements, no blame.
Parenting
Visual Morning Checklist
Replace morning reminders with a visual checklist the child checks himself — ends "hurry up!" forever.
Psychological
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Automatic Thought Record
Catch today's most painful automatic thought and break it into facts and alternative interpretations.
Psychological
View from Above
Imagine yourself from above, then orbit, then galaxy — your issues shrink.
Psychological
Physiological Sigh
Two nasal inhales, then long mouth exhale — fastest research-backed nerve calmer.
Psychological
Progressive Muscle Relaxation
Tense then relax each muscle group — one by one.
Psychological
Pre-Sleep 4-7-8 Breath
Inhale 4, hold 7, exhale 8 — repeat 4 times. Hardest people sleep.
Psychological
Structured Anger Discharge
5 min run, pillow punch, towel scream — body cleans.
Psychological
Bed for Sleep Only
No food, no work, no phone in bed. Bed = sleep.
Professional
WOOP Goal Method
Turn a vague wish into an actionable plan in 15 minutes via 4 steps: Wish—Outcome—Obstacle—Plan.
Professional
Career Capital Audit
List every rare and valuable skill you've accumulated — it's your currency to negotiate freedom.
Professional
Opportunity Cost Audit
For each "yes" this week, write the implicit "no" that came with it.
Professional
Stay Interview
Every 6 months with each report, ask: what keeps you here? What might make you leave?
Professional
SMART Goal Rewrite
Convert 3 vague goals into Specific-Measurable-Achievable-Relevant-Time-bound.