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Psychological
Self-Compassion Mantras
3 short phrases to memorize for self-collapse moments.
Leadership
Message Discipline: 3 Points No More
In crisis, only 3 points per message. Audience can't absorb more. Repetition builds understanding.
Digital & AI
Monthly Self-Search
Each month's start, search your name on Google and review the first 3 result pages.
Digital & AI
YouTube Discipline: Search, Not Recommendations
Enter YouTube with a specific search topic. Never open the home page.
Psychological
Self Bilateral Stimulation
Tap thighs alternately (right, left) 30 sec — soothes small trauma.
Professional
360 Self-Audit
Each quarter, ask 6 people around you the same 3 open questions about your performance.
Social
Self-Compassion Break
In suffering, apply Neff's 3 steps: acknowledge, common humanity, self-kindness.
Digital & AI
Self-Critique: Review Your Own Answer
After the model answers, ask it to critique its own answer and improve it before final delivery.
Psychological
Symbolic Self-Portrait
Draw self as symbol/animal/scene — discover self unconsciously.
Psychological
Self-Eulogy Writing
Write your eulogy as if delivered for you — discover deep values.
Professional
Self-Recorded Rehearsal
Record yourself rehearsing, then watch — discover unseen.
Professional
Self-Compassion Break
On failure, 3 sentences: "this is suffering. Suffering is human. I treat self kindly".
Leadership
Kill the Company: Self-Disruption Exercise
Gather team, ask: "How could you destroy our company in 5 yrs?". Answers = vulnerabilities to fix before a competitor does.
Leadership
Pay-Equity Self-Audit for Managers
Before waiting for an official HR audit, compare your team's pay yourself by role and experience — imbalances are discovered faster from the inside.
Parenting
The Calm Corner
A safe home spot your child retreats to when feelings overflow — not punishment, a sanctuary.
Parenting
Building the Child's Own Self-Advocacy Skill
Teach your child to explain his own needs gradually — instead of remaining his only voice forever.
Digital & AI
Bio Voice Consistency
Your bio across platforms says same thing, same tone, same values. Even at different lengths.
Leadership
Listening Before Advising: The 3:1 Rule
In every leadership conversation, listen 3 minutes for every 1 you speak. Advice after understanding, not before.
Psychological
Eulogy Writing
Write what you wish said at your funeral — discover deep values.
Psychological
Self Co-Regulation
Breathe with another body (partner or animal) — regulates nervous system.
Professional
Hemingway-Style Self-Edit
Edit draft Hemingway-style: short sentences, simple words, no flashy adverbs.
Social
Avoid Self-Hijack
When you feel "similar story" hijacking, resist — don't interrupt with yours.
Psychological
Hourly Presence Bell
Every hour, bell reminds you to present 1 min — not meditate, just present.
Professional
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Pomodoro Technique 25/5
Short cycles of 25 minutes work and 5 minutes rest that restore focus in a single session.
Administrative
Three Most Important Tasks (MITs)
Before starting each morning, write three tasks that, alone, would make the day a success.
Digital & AI
Family Tech Agreement
Family sits, writes 7 collective rules about screens. All sign. All accountable.
Leadership
Trust Equation
Trust = (Credibility + Reliability + Intimacy) ÷ Self-Orientation. Rate each component with 5 people.
Professional
Time Boxing
Reserve a fixed time box in your calendar for each task, so it finishes on time instead of stretching forever.
Professional
Most Important Tasks (MITs)
Pick three tasks that make today a success regardless of anything else, and finish them before noon.
Professional
Eat the Frog First
Start your day with the hardest, ugliest task before anything else — nothing scary remains for the rest of the day.
Parenting
Limit With Alternative
Set a clear limit but offer an acceptable alternative — "No throwing, yes to the sponge ball."
Parenting
Natural Consequence
Let nature teach instead of you, when safe — forgotten jacket = cold, not a lecture.
Parenting
Time-In
Sit with your child in his upset instead of isolating him — your presence regulates his nervous system.
Parenting
The Limited Choice
Offer two acceptable options instead of a single command that breeds resistance.
Parenting
Repair Instead of Punish
Teach your child to repair what he broke instead of paying for it — integrity training.
Digital & AI
Explicit Negative Constraints
State explicitly what you do not want in the output (words, styles, assumptions) to cut later editing.
Digital & AI
24-Hour Share Delay
Do not share any "shocking" news for 24 hours — breaking news is often corrected on day 1.
Psychological
Spot the Ten Cognitive Distortions
Run your current thought through the list of ten to pinpoint exactly which mental trap caught you.
Psychological
Socratic Dialogue with a Stubborn Thought
Interrogate your thought with seven Socratic questions until it loses automatic authority.
Psychological
ACCEPTS for Constructive Distraction
Seven distraction routes giving you minutes of safe survival until the wave passes.
Psychological
Compassionate Self-Talk
Imagine a friend in the same situation — what would you tell them? Tell yourself.
Psychological
Self-Compassion Friend Letter
Write what your dearest friend would say in your worst moment.
Psychological
Soothing Self-Touch
Place hand on heart or cheek 2 min — your body knows kindness.
Psychological
Loving-Kindness for Self
Repeat 4 wishes to yourself sincerely: peace, health, happiness, kindness.
Psychological
Stoic Evening Review
Every night 5 min: what did I do well, what wrong, what to improve?
Psychological
Window of Tolerance Map
Each has tolerance window — below it numbness, above it explosion. Map yours.
Professional
SBI Model
Phrase every feedback in 3 sentences: situation, specific behavior, impact — no interpretation.
Professional
Start-Stop-Continue Self
Each month, write 3 behaviors to start, 3 to stop, 3 to continue.
Social
Build an I-Statement in Four Parts
Frame your stance as: "When [behavior] I feel [feeling] because I need [value] and I request [ask]".
Social
Positive Assertion
Praise self publicly when deserved: "I did well" — breaks toxic humility.
Administrative
Audit of "Only-Me" Tasks
Log every task you do for a full week, then tag: delegable / non-delegable.
Parenting
Unconditional-Regard Language Practice
Practice sentences that separate your love from your child's performance — love isn't earned or withdrawn.
Parenting
Avoiding the Parental "Peacekeeper" Trap
Your quick intervention to stop every squabble robs your children of learning to solve it themselves — deliberate delay beats over-hasty intervention.
Digital & AI
AI as Rubber Duck for Thinking
Explain your problem to the model out loud. You often find the solution while explaining, before its reply.
Psychological
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Automatic Thought Record
Catch today's most painful automatic thought and break it into facts and alternative interpretations.
Psychological
Downward Arrow Technique
Drop your anxious thought down by asking "and what would that mean?" until you reach the core belief beneath it.
Psychological
Flexible Perfectionism Ruler
Define "good enough" upfront before starting the task.
Psychological
Naming Thoughts: "My Mind Is Telling Me..."
Prefix every thought with "my mind is telling me..." to see you are not it.
Psychological
Observing Self: Who Notices?
Discover the constant "I" that has witnessed every changing thought and feeling.
Psychological
One Committed Action
Define one action today expressing a value, even if opposing thoughts show up.