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Leadership
Regret Minimization (Bezos)
Imagine yourself at 80 looking back — which option causes the least regret?
Psychological
Emotion Granularity
Instead of "I feel bad", classify: "frustrated", "disappointed", "exhausted".
Digital & AI
Reply With Context Quote
In every long message you reply to, quote the specific line/question to make the thread readable.
Parenting
Pause Before Reaction
Between your child's action and your reaction, insert seven seconds of pause — enough to wholly change the response.
Social
Summarize-and-Verify Before Replying
Before any reply, summarize your speaker's argument and verify with them you got it before disagreeing.
Psychological
The "Perhaps" Response
When insulted, mentally say "perhaps they're right" — insult loses power.
Leadership
Rapid Prototyping Mindset for Leaders
Before approving any big idea, ask: what's the cheapest, fastest version testable within a week, instead of waiting for a full plan taking months?
Digital & AI
Setting Async Response Expectations
Explicitly state your expected response times (not instant) in your signature or status, protecting your time and ending "why hasn't he replied" anxiety.
Digital & AI
Quick Hallucination Detection Checklist
Before using any specific AI-provided fact (number, name, date, quote), apply a 5-question checklist in under a minute.
Parenting
The Parenting Journal
A private journal where you log daily three notes: what I did well, what I regret, what I learned.
Psychological
STOP in an Impulse Moment
Stop, take a breath, observe, proceed mindfully — four seconds save a decision.
Social
Let Me Think and Get Back to You
Do not commit on the spot. Request 24 hours to think before any new obligation.
Psychological
Self-Compassion Friend Letter
Write what your dearest friend would say in your worst moment.
Psychological
Stoic Evening Review
Every night 5 min: what did I do well, what wrong, what to improve?
Psychological
Rewriting Failure Story
The story you tell about failure shapes your feeling — rewrite with broader truth.
Professional
The 10-10-10 Rule
Ask "how will I feel about this in 10 minutes, 10 months, 10 years?" — and escape the trap of the moment.
Leadership
10-10-10 Decision Rule (Suzy Welch)
Before any hard choice, ask: what is the consequence in 10 minutes? 10 months? 10 years?
Administrative
Task Audit Then Automate
Don't automate before knowing what's worth it — log a week, analyze, then act.
Administrative
Post-Incident Review
After major incident: full review — timeline, causes, improvements, no blame.
Psychological
What Truly Matters?
Ask yourself the single question that distinguishes real decisions from distractors.
Psychological
5-4-3-2-1 Grounding
5 see, 4 touch, 3 hear, 2 smell, 1 taste — quick return to present.
Psychological
STOP Skill
Stop, breathe, observe, proceed mindfully — 4 steps in 30 sec.
Psychological
Alternative Life Scenario
Imagine life if you chose differently 10 yrs ago.
Professional
30-Second Elevator Pitch
Summarize project in 30 sec capturing stranger's interest.
Professional
Lateral Move Evaluation
Before accepting lateral move, evaluate on 5 axes: learning, network, visibility, stretch, energy.
Professional
Personal Board of Directors
Appoint 5 people as your "personal career board" and review big decisions with them annually.
Professional
10/10/10 Rule
Before any decision, ask: how will I view this in 10 minutes, 10 months, 10 years?
Social
Conflict Between Friends
Resolve a friend conflict via a 4-part apology and rebuild trust within 24 hours.
Administrative
Decision Matrix With 5 Axes
Compare options across 5 weighted axes; compute the highest sum.
Administrative
"Consider the Opposite" Practice
Before confirming a decision, spend 10 minutes writing the counter-case forcefully.
Administrative
Worst-Best-Expected Scenario Analysis
Each big decision: 3 numeric scenarios, not "hope for the best".
Leadership
Strengths Team Map
Identify top 5 strengths per member, plot them on a map, discover gaps and duplications.
Digital & AI
No Confidential Data to Public AI
Don't paste contracts, health data, or IP into a public model — may appear in later training.
Digital & AI
Constructively Handling Public Criticism and Hate
Set a pre-defined protocol for sorting comments: constructive criticism deserving a reply, or passing hate deserving only ignoring and blocking.
Social
Reflective Listening
Paraphrase what you heard before responding — speaker confirms you heard.
Social
"Tell Me More"
When he opens sensitive topic, say "tell me more" vs reply.
Social
Remote-Team Charter
Co-create a remote-team charter defining overlap hours, channels, and reply SLA.
Social
De-Escalate a Text Conflict
When a text exchange escalates, freeze the thread immediately and switch channels before the next reply.
Leadership
Working Agreement
5-7 detailed rules for daily team operations (meetings, replies, vacations, decisions).
Parenting
Avoiding the Parental "Peacekeeper" Trap
Your quick intervention to stop every squabble robs your children of learning to solve it themselves — deliberate delay beats over-hasty intervention.
Professional
Third-Party Introduction
Instead of cold outreach, ask mutual connection for warm intro with ready phrasing.
Administrative
New-Member Buddy System
Every new member gets a peer "buddy" (not their manager) for the first 30 days to ask any "silly" question.
Leadership
Three Horizons: Balancing Today and Tomorrow
Allocate investment and leadership time across running today's business, scaling emerging ventures, and seeding tomorrow's.
Leadership
The 90-Day Plan (Watkins)
In transition to a new role: 30 days listen, 30 plan, 30 execute. Avoid "prove myself immediately" trap.
Leadership
Protecting an Innovation Team from Bureaucracy
As a leader, be the "shield" absorbing excessive approval requirements and reporting demands from a team that experiments and learns fast.
Leadership
Inclusive Hiring Panel Design
Deliberately (not accidentally) diversify the interview panel and define written evaluation criteria before seeing any candidate — consistency protects against individual bias.
Leadership
Transparency About Mistakes as a Leader
Admit your leadership mistake to your team within 48 hours of discovering it — delay is later read as an attempt to hide it, not forgetfulness.
Digital & AI
Burnout-Prevention Posting Cadence
Set a weekly posting ceiling based on your sustainable energy, not on what the algorithm or competitors dictate.