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Administrative
Switch-Cost Analysis
Before renewing expensive vendor: compute real switch cost — may be less than you think.
Social
Boundary Against Personal Questions
Salary, marriage, children questions — prepare a non-aggressive closer phrase.
Leadership
Innovation Portfolio Balance (Core/Adjacent/Transformational)
Distribute innovation investment roughly 70/20/10 across core (improving current), adjacent (nearby extension), transformational (future bet) — not all in one bucket.
Psychological
Naming Suffering with Kindness
Name what you suffer with calm language — no exaggeration or minimizing.
Psychological
Catastrophe to Probability
Each catastrophe has 0-100% probability. Assign it — shrinks size.
Social
Religious Sensitivity in Casual Talk
Before a joke or offhand remark about food/fasting/holidays, check the listener's religious considerations.
Social
Bridging Small Talk to Real Talk
Use one "bridge" question to move dialogue from the surface (weather) to a real shared thread (values, ambition).
Administrative
Batch-to-Single-Piece Flow
Instead of processing 50 in one batch, process 1 then pass — faster, fewer errors.
Professional
Self-Compassion Break
On failure, 3 sentences: "this is suffering. Suffering is human. I treat self kindly".
Professional
Pay Yourself First
On payday, auto-transfer 10-20% to savings/investing before any expense.
Professional
Single Call-to-Action
Every writing = one CTA. Two = zero.
Psychological
Mindful Drinking
One glass of water with full attention becomes ritual, not mere consumption.
Psychological
Inner Critic Dialogue
Inner critic isn't enemy — it's a terrified protector. Speak with curiosity.
Psychological
Protector Appreciation
Parts you hate in yourself (denier, procrastinator) are protectors — thank them.
Psychological
Meaning Making in Crisis
In worst moments, seek meaning — eases pain.
Professional
Reframe "Expensive" to "Investment"
"Expensive" focuses on cost. "Investment" focuses on return.
Professional
1-on-1 Agenda Ownership
Don't let manager set 1-on-1 agenda — send 3 points one hour before meeting.
Professional
Receive With Curiosity
When receiving triggering feedback, pause 6 seconds, then ask "tell me more".
Social
Negative Inquiry
When criticized, ask: "what specifically in X bothers you?" — forces clarity.
Social
Prep 1-on-1 With Manager
Prep your 1-on-1 with SBI + GROW: situation, behavior, impact, then open GROW questions.
Social
Weekly Family Meeting
Create a 30-min weekly family meeting with fixed agenda: gratitude, challenge, plan.
Social
Public Speaking Nerves Defuser
Defuse public-speaking nerves with box breath + restructure "everyone is judging".
Administrative
Internal Audit Prep
30 days before audit: self-review controls — find gaps before auditor does.
Administrative
Post-Mortem Library
Each major incident/issue: written post-mortem — saved in searchable library.
Administrative
FAQ from Support Tickets
Track last 100 support tickets — top 20 repeats = your FAQ page.
Administrative
Keyboard Shortcut Audit
Per daily-used tool: learn 5 shortcuts — minutes/day saved = hours/year.
Administrative
Post-Incident Review
After major incident: full review — timeline, causes, improvements, no blame.
Leadership
Auditing Who Speaks in Meetings
Track for three consecutive meetings: who spoke, for how long, and how often they were interrupted — hidden patterns show in numbers, not impressions.
Parenting
I-Message Instead of You-Message
Replace "you always forget" with "I feel worried when..." — Thomas Gordon's classic formula.
Psychological
Compassionate Self-Talk
Imagine a friend in the same situation — what would you tell them? Tell yourself.
Psychological
Mindful Handwashing
Action you repeat 20x daily — turn into meditation in 30 sec.
Psychological
Self-Compassion Break
Three sentences in a moment of suffering: this is pain, I'm not alone, let me be kind to me.
Psychological
Daily Activities Meditation
Turn repeating task (dishwashing) into meditation.
Psychological
Short Presence Prayer
One min at fixed daily time, any phrasing suiting you.
Psychological
Daily Random Kindness
One random kind act daily — lifts your mood more than recipient.
Professional
Calibrated Questions (Voss)
Ask with "how" and "what" not "why" — opponent solves your problem.
Professional
Graceful Exit Plan
Define how to exit failed negotiation without burning bridges.
Professional
How-Question Strategy
Instead of direct "no", say "how can I do that?" — opponent solves your problem.
Professional
Resume Bullets STAR
Convert 5 resume bullets from "duties" to Situation-Task-Action-Result outcomes.
Professional
Real-Time Not Saved
Don't hoard feedback until annual review — give within 24 hours of event.
Professional
GROW Coaching Question
Instead of solutions, ask GROW: Goal-Reality-Options-Will — let person craft his solution.
Professional
SMART Goal Rewrite
Convert 3 vague goals into Specific-Measurable-Achievable-Relevant-Time-bound.
Professional
Lifestyle Inflation Audit
For each raise last 3 years, compute: where did it go? Did wealth grow proportionally?
Professional
Quarterly Expense Audit
Every 3 months, read bank statement line-by-line, cancel 2-3 unused subscriptions.
Professional
Active Voice Pass
Replace every passive voice with active — writing becomes direct and decisive.
Social
FORD Topics for First Conversations
Use Family-Occupation-Recreation-Dreams as four safe entry doors for any new conversation.
Social
Empathic Frame
Starting assumption: "people do their best with what they have".
Social
Boundary With Over-Sharers
When someone over-shares, use a phrase that redirects, not breaks, the conversation.
Social
Boundary Against Gossip
When gossip starts, use: "I prefer not to talk about absent people" — close it without lecturing.
Social
Refocus Attention Outward
When anxiety hijacks attention, silently name 5 colors in the room — attention leaves the body.
Social
Powerful GROW Questions
Practice asking open GROW questions instead of giving advice in every mentoring meeting.
Social
Manage Jealousy Toward a Friend
Convert jealousy of a successful friend into inspiration via 3 CBT questions.
Administrative
ICE Scoring for Ideas
Score each idea on Impact, Confidence, Ease — pick the highest sum.
Administrative
Dashboard Hygiene
Every quarter: review dashboard — drop unused, add needed, refresh targets.
Administrative
Recurring Meeting Purge
Per recurring meeting: "does it produce decision/action?" — if no, kill it.
Administrative
Expectation-Setting Kickoff
Project first meeting: explicit expectations — scope, date, quality, comms, alarms.
Leadership
Competitive Moat Analysis
Identify what protects your venture from competitors for five years — or build a moat if none exists.
Leadership
Distinguishing Technical from Adaptive Challenges
Classify your problem: technical (known solution) or adaptive (requires shifting minds and values)? Confusing them is leadership failure #1.
Parenting
Tell Me More
Replace investigative "why?" questions with the invitation "tell me more" to open the story.
Parenting
The Silent Car Conversation
Use the side-by-side (not face-to-face) car ride to open doors to hard talk.