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Psychological
Self as Context
You aren't your thoughts or feelings — you're the context they happen in.
Professional
Self-Compassion Break
On failure, 3 sentences: "this is suffering. Suffering is human. I treat self kindly".
Leadership
Knowledge Reversal Test
Imagine entering the decision with what you know today — would you still make it?
Leadership
Saying Yes to a Bad-Seeming Idea to Test It Cheaply
When an idea seems intuitively bad but its test cost is low, approve it as a cheap experiment instead of rejecting it on intuition alone.
Professional
Self-1 vs Self-2
Self-1 (critic) sabotages Self-2 (doer) — watch inner dialogue during performance.
Digital & AI
Testing 5 Thumbnails/Covers Before Publishing
Just as you brainstorm 10 titles, generate 5 different thumbnail/cover concepts, and pick via a small sample, not instinct alone.
Psychological
Self-Energy Meeting
Beneath noisy parts is a calm curious compassionate "Self" — meet it.
Psychological
Symbolic Self-Portrait
Draw self as symbol/animal/scene — discover self unconsciously.
Social
Self-Compassion Break
In suffering, apply Neff's 3 steps: acknowledge, common humanity, self-kindness.
Leadership
The "Front Page Test" for Decisions
Before any sensitive decision, ask: if published with full detail on tomorrow's front page, would I defend it with pride or look for an exit?
Psychological
Just-World Test
"People deserve what happens to them" — test on people you love.
Professional
Negotiate With Self First
Before negotiation, negotiate with self: want? accept? refuse?
Social
Test Humor Before It Crosses Cultures
Before a joke with a multicultural group, run it through a filter: does it rely on local wordplay?
Social
Test Your Empathic Accuracy
After guessing what a close person feels, verify explicitly instead of trusting your hunch alone.
Administrative
Decision Stress Test
Before big commitment: "what if X drops 50%?" Test plan robustness.
Leadership
Weekly Autonomy Test
5 questions every Friday: did reports decide without me? If not, why?
Leadership
Self-Coaching Protocol
When no coach is available, write out answers to GROW questions about yourself, aloud or in writing — leaders need to coach themselves too.
Digital & AI
Red-Teaming Your Own AI-Assisted Work
After completing AI-assisted work (report, presentation, plan), ask AI itself to attack the work as a strict external critic before submission.
Psychological
Self-Compassion Mantras
3 short phrases to memorize for self-collapse moments.
Psychological
Observing Self: Who Notices?
Discover the constant "I" that has witnessed every changing thought and feeling.
Psychological
VIA Character Strengths
Free test reveals top 5 character strengths.
Psychological
Self-Compassion Break
Three sentences in a moment of suffering: this is pain, I'm not alone, let me be kind to me.
Psychological
Self-Hug Exercise
Hug yourself 20 sec — nervous system responds like others' hugs.
Psychological
Self Bilateral Stimulation
Tap thighs alternately (right, left) 30 sec — soothes small trauma.
Psychological
Eulogy Writing
Write what you wish said at your funeral — discover deep values.
Psychological
Self Co-Regulation
Breathe with another body (partner or animal) — regulates nervous system.
Psychological
Self-Eulogy Writing
Write your eulogy as if delivered for you — discover deep values.
Social
Six of Aron's 36 Questions
Trade six escalating-depth questions with a close person to deepen intimacy in 30 minutes.
Social
Avoid Self-Hijack
When you feel "similar story" hijacking, resist — don't interrupt with yours.
Administrative
10-10-10 Test
How will I feel about this decision in 10 minutes, 10 months, 10 years?
Leadership
Three Horizons: Balancing Today and Tomorrow
Allocate investment and leadership time across running today's business, scaling emerging ventures, and seeding tomorrow's.
Leadership
Role-Model Decision Test
Imagine someone you deeply respect and ask: "What would you do in my place?"
Leadership
Kill the Company: Self-Disruption Exercise
Gather team, ask: "How could you destroy our company in 5 yrs?". Answers = vulnerabilities to fix before a competitor does.
Parenting
The Three-Part Bedtime Ritual
Build a consistent three-step bedtime ritual — cuts bedtime resistance 70%.
Parenting
Building the Child's Own Self-Advocacy Skill
Teach your child to explain his own needs gradually — instead of remaining his only voice forever.
Digital & AI
Self-Critique: Review Your Own Answer
After the model answers, ask it to critique its own answer and improve it before final delivery.
Digital & AI
Bio Voice Consistency
Your bio across platforms says same thing, same tone, same values. Even at different lengths.
Psychological
Universalization Question
Your negative thought — if someone else thought it, would you agree?
Psychological
Behavioral Experiment for a Prediction
Turn your anxious prediction into a testable hypothesis, then act and collect data.
Psychological
Universalizing Test
Your negative self-thought — if 100 people who know you heard it, how many would agree?
Leadership
Rapid Prototyping Mindset for Leaders
Before approving any big idea, ask: what's the cheapest, fastest version testable within a week, instead of waiting for a full plan taking months?
Professional
Decision Assumptions
Before any big decision, write 5 assumptions you relied on — test the weakest.
Digital & AI
AI Brainstorming 10 Titles
Don't pick the first title that comes to mind. Generate 10 with varied angles, then choose the best.
Digital & AI
AI-Assisted Spaced Retrieval
After a Socratic learning session, ask AI to generate retrieval questions at increasing intervals (1 day, 3 days, a week) instead of relying on random memory.
Digital & AI
AI for Code Review vs. Code Generation
Know when to ask AI to generate new code versus review existing code — the two uses need different prompts and different caution.
Psychological
Compassionate Self-Talk
Imagine a friend in the same situation — what would you tell them? Tell yourself.
Psychological
Externalizing the Problem
Instead of "I am depressed", say "depression visits me" — problem loses grip.
Psychological
Lake Meditation
Imagine self as lake — storms on surface, depth calm.
Professional
SBI Model
Phrase every feedback in 3 sentences: situation, specific behavior, impact — no interpretation.
Social
Positive Assertion
Praise self publicly when deserved: "I did well" — breaks toxic humility.
Social
Discover Their Real Love Language
Don't assume your partner's love language — test it with three situations this week and compare reactions.
Administrative
Audit of "Only-Me" Tasks
Log every task you do for a full week, then tag: delegable / non-delegable.
Leadership
Listening Before Advising: The 3:1 Rule
In every leadership conversation, listen 3 minutes for every 1 you speak. Advice after understanding, not before.
Parenting
Read-Aloud Beyond Age Seven
Keep reading aloud to your child to age 12, even if he reads alone — benefits go beyond language.
Digital & AI
30-Day Social Media Fast Protocol
Delete social apps (not just deactivate the account) for a full 30 days, with a conscious reintegration plan afterward.
Psychological
Downward Arrow Technique
Drop your anxious thought down by asking "and what would that mean?" until you reach the core belief beneath it.
Psychological
Leaves on a Stream
Place each thought on a leaf and watch it drift down a stream.
Psychological
Willingness to Hold Discomfort
Open your hand to uncomfortable feelings instead of clenching — and watch them soften.
Psychological
Radical Acceptance of the Unchangeable
Stop fighting what already happened to free energy for moving forward.
Psychological
Five-Sense Self-Soothe
Use every sense deliberately to soothe your nervous system.