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Psychological
Dark Hour Before Sleep
Hour before sleep: no blue light, no screens — body makes melatonin.
Leadership
Whistleblowing Prep
Before whistleblowing, document evidence, consult counsel, know your legal rights.
Parenting
Transition-to-Adulthood Planning for a Special-Needs Teen
The transition from a supportive school system to the adult world needs a plan starting in the teen years, not at sudden graduation.
Professional
Slide-Last Writing
Write conclusion and message before opening PowerPoint — saves 70%.
Digital & AI
Parents Modeling Phone-Free Meals
Before asking your child to put their phone away at the table, put yours away first — modeling beats any spoken rule.
Social
No Without Apology
Say "no, I can't" — complete sentence. No explanation, no apology.
Psychological
Willingness vs Willfulness
Willingness to accept reality as is, not willfulness rejecting it — subtle but powerful.
Psychological
No-Screen First 30 Min
First 30 min of day — no phone. Everything changes.
Psychological
Three Good Things
Before sleep, write 3 good things and reason for each.
Professional
Building STAR Interview Stories
Prepare three STAR stories (Situation—Task—Action—Result) that cover 80% of behavioral interview questions.
Social
Listen Without Fixing
Don't try to "fix" friend's feelings — be a well that holds, not a tissue that wipes.
Administrative
Full No-Meeting Day
Designate one weekday with zero meetings — even from the CEO.
Leadership
Three Horizons: Balancing Today and Tomorrow
Allocate investment and leadership time across running today's business, scaling emerging ventures, and seeding tomorrow's.
Leadership
The Pre-Wire: Informal Heads-Up Before Formal Announcements
Before any impactful formal announcement, give key stakeholders a private individual heads-up so they're never blindsided publicly.
Digital & AI
Tracing Claims to Primary Sources Before Sharing
Before sharing a statistic or study finding, follow the citation chain to the primary source (the study, official report) instead of trusting whoever relayed it.
Social
Listening Without Solving
When he complains, don't solve — listen, empathize, ask "what do you need from me?".
Social
Confess Mistake Before Discovery
When you err, confess before discovery — confession timing dictates the penalty.
Administrative
No-Agenda-No-Meeting Rule
Refuse to attend or hold any meeting whose agenda did not arrive 24 hours prior, no exceptions.
Administrative
Build Blameless Culture
Error defined as system problem not person — unlocks honest info without fear.
Leadership
Scenario Planning: 4 Possible Futures
Instead of predicting one future, write 4 radically different scenarios. Your plan survives all four.
Leadership
The Communication Cascade: Aligning Managers Before an Announcement
Before any major org announcement, brief your managers 48 hours ahead with a Q&A sheet so they're never surprised in front of their teams.
Parenting
Screen-Free Zones and Times
Set 3 zones and 3 times daily as screen-free for the whole family — simpler than complex hour rules.
Parenting
Screen-Free Dinner — Family Tech Agreement
A written family agreement: the table is a screen-free zone for everyone in the home.
Parenting
Celebrating Differences Without Ranking
Not the generic "you're both special," but precise per-child description preventing implicit better/worse comparison.
Digital & AI
Tech-Free Vacation Planning
Before your next trip, explicitly plan a screen-reduced vacation — deciding in advance is far easier than resisting in the moment mid-trip.
Social
Contribute Without Burning Out
Set explicit community contribution limits: hours/month, task types, exit point.
Psychological
Emotion Description Without Judgment
Name feeling (sad, angry) — without "I'm bad" or "this is wrong".
Professional
Pre-Meeting Breath
3 deep breaths before any meeting — full presence vs reactive.
Social
Verify Before Concluding
Before judging intent, call and ask — avoid 80% of misunderstandings.
Administrative
Plan-Do-Check-Act (PDCA) Cycle
Improve any process via a weekly four-stage loop: Plan, Do, Check, Act.
Administrative
Facilitate "Write Before Speak"
For every group decision: 3 minutes of silent individual writing before any discussion.
Administrative
Plus/Delta Review at Meeting's End
Last 3 minutes: what worked? What do we improve next meeting?
Parenting
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Ten-Minute Tech-Free Listening
Give your child ten minutes of full undivided attention with no screen or interruption — daily.
Psychological
Plutchik Wheel Audit
8 primary emotions in a wheel, gradient and mixing — visual tool to discover yours.
Social
Pre-Call Heads-Up Text
Do not call out of the blue. Text an hour before: "Can I have 15 minutes now or after dinner?"
Parenting
Teen Talk Without Solutions
When your teen shares a problem, don't offer a fix unless explicitly asked.
Parenting
Risk Talks Without Lecture
Discuss drugs/alcohol/sex via questions, not lectures. Curiosity opens when invited, not imposed.
Digital & AI
14-Day Trial Before Subscription
Don't subscribe to a new tool before truly using it 14 days in real workflow.
Digital & AI
Phone-Free Nature Walk
Complement your screen-free meditation with a weekly 20-min nature walk (park, coast, desert) with zero phone — not even for photos.
Psychological
Chain Analysis
Track what happened before the blow-up, where the chain could have broken.
Social
Aligning Your Shared Future Vision
Draw a 5-year timeline together and compare divergence points before they become a sudden collision.
Administrative
"No Agenda, No Meeting" Rule
Decline any meeting without a written agenda — politely cancel and request one.
Administrative
Contract Red-Flag Checklist
Before signing: 12 red flags that may cost thousands later.
Leadership
Pretotyping: Test Idea Before Building
Before building full product, test with "fake prototype" (10× simpler than MVP). Saves months + tens of thousands.
Leadership
Whistleblower-Safe Culture Building
Test your confidential reporting channel yourself (not just theoretically) — is it actually anonymous, and did it respond the last time it was used?
Administrative
The Andon Cord: Everyone's Stop Authority
Give every employee the right to halt the process instantly upon spotting a defect, without waiting for manager approval.
Digital & AI
Breach Check via HaveIBeenPwned
Check all your emails on haveibeenpwned.com to know which breaches exposed your data.
Parenting
Risk Talk Without Lecture
Talk to your teen about drugs, sex, reckless driving before the moment arrives — dialogue not lecture.
Leadership
Responding to the Innovator's Dilemma
Your current profitable products kill your future innovations. This exercise spins off an innovation unit before too late.
Leadership
McKinsey's 3 Horizons: Balanced Growth
Invest in 3 time horizons together: current (H1), next growth (H2), future innovation (H3). Neglecting any = slow death.
Digital & AI
Child Online Safety
Before any new app for your child: check 3 things — recommended age, privacy, stranger contact.
Digital & AI
Responding to Identity Theft or Impersonation
If you discover a fake account impersonating your name or photos, apply a rapid documentation-and-reporting protocol instead of panicking or ignoring it.
Psychological
Observing Self: Who Notices?
Discover the constant "I" that has witnessed every changing thought and feeling.
Administrative
Weekly Gemba Walk
Go to the workplace, observe yourself, ask "why" 3 times, don't intervene.
Parenting
Gentle Sleep Without Cry-It-Out
Presence-based sleep protocol (Sears) — don't leave him to cry, don't let yourself crash.
Administrative
Exit-Clause Review Before Signing
Before signing: exit options? notice? penalties? data handoff?
Leadership
Stay Interview
30 min with a top performer, 5 questions on "why you stay and why you might leave" before they actually consider leaving.
Parenting
The Screen Time and Sleep Science Conversation
Explain the biology of blue light and melatonin instead of a bare "forbidden" — understanding builds internal commitment.
Parenting
Unguided Exploration Box
Box of diverse materials (scraps + nature + tools) — child plays with no goal or instructions.
Social
Curiosity Without Judgment
When acts oddly, ask "why did he do that?" with curiosity not critique.