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Digital & AI
Multi-Step Agentic Prompting With Clear Limits
When delegating a multi-step chained task to the model, define mandatory human-review checkpoints before continuing.
Leadership
The 90-Day Plan (Watkins)
In transition to a new role: 30 days listen, 30 plan, 30 execute. Avoid "prove myself immediately" trap.
Parenting
Rough-and-Tumble Play — Benefits and Safe Boundaries
Gentle wrestling and chase games aren't violence — they build nervous-system regulation and physical confidence within clear rules.
Leadership
Wardley Maps: Visualizing Strategic Evolution
Each activity in your value chain is at a different evolution stage. The map reveals where to invest, where to exit.
Parenting
Collaborative Curfew Negotiation
Turn curfew from an imposed decree into a negotiated agreement, giving your teen real voice within clear limits.
Professional
Eisenhower Matrix
Sort your tasks into four quadrants in ten minutes to know exactly what to do now, defer, delegate, or drop.
Professional
Time Boxing
Reserve a fixed time box in your calendar for each task, so it finishes on time instead of stretching forever.
Professional
Most Important Tasks (MITs)
Pick three tasks that make today a success regardless of anything else, and finish them before noon.
Administrative
Non-Delegatable Task List
Explicitly write a list of 3-5 tasks you never delegate, and delegate everything else without hesitation.
Administrative
Advanced Eisenhower Matrix
Sort your week's tasks into four quadrants: urgent-important, important-not-urgent, urgent-not-important, neither.
Administrative
ICE Scoring for Initiatives
Score each initiative Impact x Confidence x Ease (1-10 each), execute by score order.
Administrative
Three Most Important Tasks (MITs)
Before starting each morning, write three tasks that, alone, would make the day a success.
Psychological
Best Possible Self
Write 15 min about best version of self in 5 years — you may see self.
Professional
Active Voice Pass
Replace every passive voice with active — writing becomes direct and decisive.
Professional
Boundary Statement
Phrase 3 written boundaries with boss/team: hours, response, leave — send formally.
Parenting
Repairing Trust After a Teen's Boundary Violation (Lying, Sneaking Out)
Trust broken by lying or sneaking out is rebuilt gradually, not restored in one sentence — a realistic step-by-step protocol.
Psychological
Memento Mori
Daily remember you will die — clears priorities fast.
Psychological
Last Day Reflection
Simple morning question revealing what was postponed and shouldn't be.
Psychological
Safe Place Visualization
Imagine a safe place you always remember — invoke in crisis.
Psychological
Implementation Intention (If-Then)
"If X happens, I will do Y" — doubles to triples adherence.
Professional
Ideal Week Planning
Draw ideal week before others fill it.
Professional
Not-To-Do List
5 things NOT to do this month.
Professional
Personal Kanban
3 columns.
Professional
Digital Hermit Mode
One day no internet — discover what you can truly produce.
Professional
80/20 Demand Prioritization
Of 10 demands, 2 deserve 80% of your power. Focus there.
Professional
Negotiate With Self First
Before negotiation, negotiate with self: want? accept? refuse?
Professional
SBI Model
Phrase every feedback in 3 sentences: situation, specific behavior, impact — no interpretation.
Professional
GROW Coaching Question
Instead of solutions, ask GROW: Goal-Reality-Options-Will — let person craft his solution.
Social
Specific Request
Instead of "be better", request "reply to my message within 24h".
Social
Extra-Work Boundary
When given work outside your scope, use "to do X, we must defer Y".
Social
After-Hours Work Boundary
Set explicit working hours and broadcast them in your email signature.
Social
Home Role Clarity
Distribute home roles clearly: who owns what, without expecting mind-reading.
Administrative
Upward Stakeholder Management
Your boss has little time, many concerns — use 4 principles to be a smart stakeholder.
Leadership
Wildly Important Goals (WIGs)
Pick 1-3 goals max that create real difference, ignore the rest for 6 months.
Leadership
Stop-Doing List
Instead of a "start-doing" list, build a "stop-doing" list: what activities to cease to free energy for the most important?
Leadership
Monkey Management
Each time a report brings a problem, the monkey jumps on your back. Your job: keep it on theirs.
Leadership
Weighted Decision Matrix
For decisions with 3+ options: 5 criteria, weights, 1-5 ratings, mathematical winner.
Leadership
Sorting Your 5 Leadership Values
From 30 values, pick only 5 — very hard but reveals what truly matters.
Leadership
Writing Your Own Obituary
Imagine your death 40 years from now. Write the obituary you'd want read. Reveals purpose.
Leadership
Onboarding Your Manager (Not the Reverse)
When joining a new manager (or they join you), give them YOUR user manual. How you work best? What annoys? What you need?
Leadership
Personal Values Clarification
Identify 5 core values and verify your decisions actually reflect them.
Leadership
Sunk Cost Culture Audit
Identify projects team continues because "we invested" not because they deserve it.
Leadership
Onboarding a New Team Member: 30-60-90 Day Plan
Design a 3-phase leadership onboarding plan: Learn (30) → Contribute (60) → Own (90) — instead of leaving the new member to "figure it out alone".
Digital & AI
Bio Voice Consistency
Your bio across platforms says same thing, same tone, same values. Even at different lengths.
Digital & AI
AI Limits in Personal Decisions
AI = info-gathering tool. Personal decisions (marriage, career, medical, friendship) = human decides.
Psychological
DEAR MAN for Effective Asking
Seven elements that turn a confused request into a clear respectful message that can be refused without breaking the relationship.
Leadership
Conducting a Respectful Firing Conversation
End employment with least harm: 10 min, 3 clear messages, dignified exit.
Leadership
AI Ethics Boundary
Set clear policy: which decisions will never be delegated to AI in your team.
Digital & AI
Explicit Constraints Beat Guidance
"Max 80 words, don't use 'innovative', start with imperative" beats "make it short and clear".
Social
Pre-Call Heads-Up Text
Do not call out of the blue. Text an hour before: "Can I have 15 minutes now or after dinner?"
Administrative
90-Day Plan for a New Role
Three phases: learn (30), diagnose (60), first win (90).
Administrative
Zero-Based Communication Channel Audit
Freeze every internal comm channel (Slack, email, meetings) for a week, and reinstate only what's actually demanded back.
Leadership
Storytelling with Data for Leaders
Turn one important number into a 3-act story (situation, turn, outcome) instead of a slide crowded with figures.
Parenting
Values-Based Screen Framing, Not Rules-Based
Instead of counting minutes, ask: "What value do I want my child to live, and is the screen serving or blocking it right now?"
Parenting
Limit with Empathy
Say firm "no" with warm "I understand" — Janet Lansbury's classic formula.
Parenting
Feeding Without Battles — Division of Responsibility
Satter's Division of Responsibility: you decide what/when/where, he decides how much and whether to eat.
Digital & AI
Expert Persona Assignment
Assign the model a specific background and expertise so its answer matches a real expert level.
Digital & AI
Separating Professional and Personal Identity Across Platforms
Consciously decide which platform is purely professional, which is personal, and which is deliberately mixed — instead of unintentional mixing that harms both.