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Administrative
Delegating Decisions, Not Tasks
Specify the decision-types (not tasks) you will delegate via an explicit authority ring.
Professional
No-Decision Audit
Each month, list 5 decisions you didn't make — postponing IS a decision.
Leadership
Consistency Check with Past Decisions
Compare your current decision to past decisions in similar situations — are you consistent or contradicting?
Administrative
The "Never Delegate This" List
Identify 5-7 tasks that must stay with you, so you delegate everything else with peace.
Parenting
Graduated Autonomy Granting
Hand your teen one new decision each month — Lisa Damour's autonomy-training plan.
Digital & AI
Knowing When NOT to Use AI at All
Write a personal list of situations where you exclude AI entirely — irreversible decisions needing purely human judgment.
Professional
1-on-1 Agenda Ownership
Don't let manager set 1-on-1 agenda — send 3 points one hour before meeting.
Psychological
STOP in an Impulse Moment
Stop, take a breath, observe, proceed mindfully — four seconds save a decision.
Administrative
Annual Theme Instead of Resolutions
A single theme-word guides your year's decisions instead of forgotten resolutions.
Leadership
Context, Not Control (Netflix)
Instead of directing reports, give them full context to decide confidently themselves. You do this as leader.
Leadership
Ethical Decision Matrix
Before ethically murky decision, evaluate on 4 axes: legal/ethical/values/reputation.
Administrative
24-Hour Pause Before Big Decisions
Any decision over 5000 SAR or 5 hours of impact — wait 24 hours before executing.
Digital & AI
Auto-Summarize Meeting Transcripts
Convert a meeting transcript (60+ min) into decisions and action items in 2 minutes.
Psychological
Three-Word Year Theme
Pick 3 words for next year — focuses decisions.
Administrative
Architecture Decision Record (ADR)
Each significant decision: a text file with context, options, choice, consequences.
Leadership
Weekly Autonomy Test
5 questions every Friday: did reports decide without me? If not, why?
Social
The Apology-Free No
Say no in three sentences: thanks, refusal, closing — with no "sorry" or justification.
Leadership
Decision Classification: Reversible?
Per decision: is it a two-way door (reversible) or one-way door?
Administrative
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Silent Reading Meeting Start
Open the meeting with five minutes of silent reading of a written memo instead of slides.
Leadership
Ethical Decision-Making Under Commercial Pressure
When an urgent profit target conflicts with an ethical principle, write both sides explicitly on one page before deciding — don't let it be settled only in your head.
Digital & AI
AI Limits in Personal Decisions
AI = info-gathering tool. Personal decisions (marriage, career, medical, friendship) = human decides.
Digital & AI
AI-Assisted Decision Journaling
Before a big decision, ask AI to surface your biases through questions (not give the answer), then log the decision and prediction for later review.
Administrative
Conflict of Interest Declaration
Each team member: annual signature on disclosure of relationships affecting decisions.
Social
No Without Apology
Say "no, I can't" — complete sentence. No explanation, no apology.
Psychological
ABC Model Map
Event (A) → Belief (B) → Consequence (C): break the assumption that events cause emotions directly.
Psychological
Opposite Action
When your emotion doesn't serve the situation, do the opposite of what it pushes you to.
Psychological
Willingness vs Willfulness
Willingness to accept reality as is, not willfulness rejecting it — subtle but powerful.
Psychological
Self-Compassion Break
Three sentences in a moment of suffering: this is pain, I'm not alone, let me be kind to me.
Psychological
Voluntary Discomfort
Deliberately impose small discomfort (cold water, fast) weekly — builds resilience.
Psychological
Chain Analysis
Track what happened before the blow-up, where the chain could have broken.
Psychological
Dark Hour Before Sleep
Hour before sleep: no blue light, no screens — body makes melatonin.
Psychological
No-Screen First 30 Min
First 30 min of day — no phone. Everything changes.
Psychological
Hope: Three Pathways
Per goal, 3 ways — so you don't collapse if one blocks.
Professional
BLUF Email (Bottom Line Up Front)
Start every email with one sentence containing the bottom line and the ask — recipients reply 3x faster.
Professional
Do-Not-Disturb Signal
Visual sign on desk telling others you're in focus.
Professional
Weak Ties Activation
Opportunities come from acquaintances not friends — activate 20 weak ties this month.
Social
Three-Sentence Reflective Listening
After hearing your partner, reflect back three sentences: content, feeling, and underlying value.
Social
The Four-Step Specific Apology
Apologize with: name the act, the impact, take ownership, repair step. No "sorry if...".
Social
Listen Without Fixing
Don't try to "fix" friend's feelings — be a well that holds, not a tissue that wipes.
Social
Small Repair Within 24 Hours
After a fight, don't wait — a small repair gesture within 24h saves the bond.
Social
Confess Mistake Before Discovery
When you err, confess before discovery — confession timing dictates the penalty.
Social
De-Escalate a Text Conflict
When a text exchange escalates, freeze the thread immediately and switch channels before the next reply.
Social
Micro Mood-Repair Technique
When your mood dips mid-social-day, apply a 90-second intervention before it spoils your interactions.
Social
The Mid-Argument Repair Attempt
Keep 3 ready "repair" phrases to deploy mid-argument before it escalates into emotional flooding.
Social
The Post-Conflict Repair Protocol
After both calm down from a conflict, run a structured 4-question dialogue to close it for real, not superficially.
Administrative
No-Agenda-No-Meeting Rule
Refuse to attend or hold any meeting whose agenda did not arrive 24 hours prior, no exceptions.
Administrative
Three Most Important Tasks (MITs)
Before starting each morning, write three tasks that, alone, would make the day a success.
Administrative
"No Agenda, No Meeting" Rule
Decline any meeting without a written agenda — politely cancel and request one.
Administrative
Full No-Meeting Day
Designate one weekday with zero meetings — even from the CEO.
Administrative
Plus/Delta Review at Meeting's End
Last 3 minutes: what worked? What do we improve next meeting?
Administrative
BLUF — Bottom Line Up Front
Every work email starts with one sentence: "what I need from you" or "the bottom line".
Administrative
Contract Red-Flag Checklist
Before signing: 12 red flags that may cost thousands later.
Administrative
No-Code First, Then Code
Before requesting a developer to automate a process, trial it with a no-code tool for two weeks first — if it works, you saved months.
Administrative
Peer Conflict-Resolution Protocol
Before any peer conflict escalates to the manager, apply these defined steps between yourselves first.
Leadership
Blue Ocean: The ERRC Strategy Canvas
Identify what to eliminate, reduce, raise, and create relative to your industry to build a competition-free market.
Leadership
3-Scenario Planning
Craft three plausible futures (optimistic, base, hard) and test your decisions against each.
Leadership
McKinsey Three Horizons
Balance investment across the core today, near growth, and long-range bets.
Leadership
Strategy on One Page
Summarize company strategy in 5 boxes on a single A4, capturing everything that matters.
Leadership
Ideal Team Player Diagnosis
3 virtues (Humble, Hungry, Smart) for ideal team player. Diagnose your team against them.
Leadership
Identifying Loyalties: To Whom Does Each Person Owe Allegiance?
People resist change not from laziness, but because their loyalties are at risk. Discover the loyalty before expecting movement.