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Psychological
Physical Pain Sensation Acceptance
Physical pain doesn't obey resistance — it softens with conscious acceptance.
Psychological
Radical Acceptance
Resisting reality doubles pain. Full acceptance (not approval) frees.
Psychological
Radical Acceptance of the Unchangeable
Stop fighting what already happened to free energy for moving forward.
Leadership
Three Horizons: Balancing Today and Tomorrow
Allocate investment and leadership time across running today's business, scaling emerging ventures, and seeding tomorrow's.
Digital & AI
Hallucination Check: 3 Questions Before Accepting
Before accepting any AI answer, ask: source? dates correct? names real?
Psychological
Struggle Switch
Imagine an inner switch — when on, suffering doubles. Can you leave it off?
Psychological
Willing Hands
Open hands, palms up — body signal for acceptance.
Psychological
Willingness vs Willfulness
Willingness to accept reality as is, not willfulness rejecting it — subtle but powerful.
Psychological
Turning the Mind
Acceptance isn't one decision — it's a recurring choice you make daily.
Psychological
Willingness vs Willfulness
Willingness accepts what is, willfulness rejects — which do you pick?
Psychological
"I Am Safe Now" Anchor
In flashback, anchor present with 3 sensory facts.
Psychological
Expansion vs Resistance
Open space for hard sensation in your body instead of suppressing or fleeing.
Psychological
The "Perhaps" Response
When insulted, mentally say "perhaps they're right" — insult loses power.
Psychological
Emotion Validation
Tell self "it makes sense to feel this" — don't contest.
Psychological
Pain Mindfulness
Pain + resistance = suffering. Pain - resistance = just pain.
Professional
BATNA Preparation
Define your Best Alternative before negotiating so you never accept a deal worse than what you already have.
Psychological
RAIN Meditation
Recognize, Allow, Investigate, Nurture — four steps to heal a hard emotion.
Psychological
Memento Vivere
After remembering death, remember to live — invest your day, not waste it in worry.
Psychological
Emotion Description Without Judgment
Name feeling (sad, angry) — without "I'm bad" or "this is wrong".
Psychological
Hundred Returns
Every time mind wanders, return — meditation isn't stillness, it's return.
Psychological
Eulogy Writing
Write what you wish said at your funeral — discover deep values.
Psychological
Time Orientation Anchor
Say aloud date and current location — anchors brain in present.
Psychological
Self-Eulogy Writing
Write your eulogy as if delivered for you — discover deep values.
Professional
Probe Final Price
Ask "is this your best?" 3 times — opponent lowers.
Professional
Negotiate With Self First
Before negotiation, negotiate with self: want? accept? refuse?
Professional
SBI Model
Phrase every feedback in 3 sentences: situation, specific behavior, impact — no interpretation.
Social
Validate Feelings
Say: "your feelings make sense" — even if you disagree with behavior.
Social
When a Friend Changes
Accept your friend's change instead of trying to restore their old version.
Administrative
Delegate Outcome, Not Method
Describe the outcome in 3 sentences, let the employee pick the path.
Administrative
Architecture Decision Record (ADR)
Each significant decision: a text file with context, options, choice, consequences.
Administrative
Expectation-Setting Kickoff
Project first meeting: explicit expectations — scope, date, quality, comms, alarms.
Administrative
Exception-Only Reporting
Don't report what went as expected. Report only what breached the allowed threshold — silence is reassurance.
Leadership
Psychological Safety Check (Edmondson)
Measure with 7 questions whether your team feels safe to tell truths, ask questions, admit mistakes.
Leadership
Sorting Your 5 Leadership Values
From 30 values, pick only 5 — very hard but reveals what truly matters.
Leadership
Building Psychological Safety on Edmondson's Model
Teams with high psychological safety perform 4x better. This exercise measures and raises it in your team.
Leadership
Psychological Safety Address
Write a speech or message declaring your commitment to a fail-safe environment.
Digital & AI
Knowledge Cutoff Awareness
The model does not know what happened after its training cutoff. Know each model's cutoff.
Digital & AI
Learning in Public
Publish weekly what you learn even if not mastered. Public mistakes accelerate correction.
Professional
Lateral Move Evaluation
Before accepting lateral move, evaluate on 5 axes: learning, network, visibility, stretch, energy.
Leadership
McKinsey's 3 Horizons: Balanced Growth
Invest in 3 time horizons together: current (H1), next growth (H2), future innovation (H3). Neglecting any = slow death.
Parenting
Limit With Alternative
Set a clear limit but offer an acceptable alternative — "No throwing, yes to the sponge ball."
Parenting
The Limited Choice
Offer two acceptable options instead of a single command that breeds resistance.
Parenting
College Readiness Without Achievement Anxiety
Don't reduce teen to "admission GPA." Invest in aspiration, life skills, and mental health.
Psychological
Flexible Perfectionism Ruler
Define "good enough" upfront before starting the task.
Psychological
Funeral Visualization
At your funeral in 50 years, what do you wish people said? Start it today.
Psychological
5-4-3-2-1 Grounding
5 see, 4 touch, 3 hear, 2 smell, 1 taste — quick return to present.
Psychological
Sensory Anchoring (5 senses)
Notice one thing per sense now — exit dissociation.
Social
The Apology-Free No
Say no in three sentences: thanks, refusal, closing — with no "sorry" or justification.
Social
Pre-Call Heads-Up Text
Do not call out of the blue. Text an hour before: "Can I have 15 minutes now or after dinner?"
Administrative
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Silent Reading Meeting Start
Open the meeting with five minutes of silent reading of a written memo instead of slides.
Leadership
Pre-Commitment Device
Lock yourself out of the weak option before you face it — via financial or public stake that's hard to undo.
Parenting
Personal Story-Telling
Tell your child a story from your childhood weekly — transmits family heritage and values unforgettably.
Digital & AI
Self-Critique: Review Your Own Answer
After the model answers, ask it to critique its own answer and improve it before final delivery.
Digital & AI
AI-vs-AI Critique
Feed one model's output to another and request harsh critique. Disagreements expose weak points.
Digital & AI
Fact-Grounding Strategies
Every factual AI claim = ask for a source. No source = don't use.