Audit your closest 5 via a relationship grid: who adds, who drains, who mirrors your values.

When he opens sensitive topic, say "tell me more" vs reply.

Score each initiative Impact x Confidence x Ease (1-10 each), execute by score order.

Score each idea on Impact, Confidence, Ease — pick the highest sum.

In few-shot, deliberate variety (positive/negative/edge case) matters more than count.