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Mendelow Power-Interest Grid

Each stakeholder: place in quadrant (high/low power × high/low interest) — each quadrant has strategy.

Screen Time as a Values Conversation, Not a Daily Battle

Beyond a one-time signed document — a renewed weekly conversation asking "why," not just "how many minutes."

Identifying Informal Authority Holders

Who is actually consulted before any important decision, even without the formal title? Find them before launching a major change.

Feeding Without Battles — Division of Responsibility

Satter's Division of Responsibility: you decide what/when/where, he decides how much and whether to eat.

Natural Consequences Over Punishment

Let reality teach your child when safe — stronger than any imposed punishment.

Silent Presence Training

In a meeting, learn to listen 80% and speak 20%. Leader's authority grows in silence, not words.

Coaching a Peer (Not a Direct Report)

Coach a peer at your same management level with no hierarchical authority — the challenge here is separating friendship from neutrality, not authority from support.

Passing Thoughts Box

Thoughts aren't facts or orders — guests passing through.

Incident Commander Assignment

In crisis: one person leads, all report to them, fast decisions — not "committee".

Choice Over Command

Offer your child two bounded choices instead of a direct command — cuts resistance 70%.

Radical Acceptance of the Unchangeable

Stop fighting what already happened to free energy for moving forward.

Struggle Switch

Imagine an inner switch — when on, suffering doubles. Can you leave it off?

No Without Apology

Say "no, I can't" — complete sentence. No explanation, no apology.

Ask, Don't Tell: The Manage-Up Rule

When you need to influence your manager, don't tell them the solution. Ask a question leading them. Their ownership > yours.

Homework Buddy, Not Homework Boss

Sit beside your child during homework, don't solve for him. Your presence = support, not completion.

Before executing decision, imagine it failed in a year, enumerate most likely failure causes.

Personal Group-Chat Boundary

Craft one personal boundary for a group chat that drains you, and state it without apology.

Consistent Homework Schedule

A fixed daily time and place for homework — less negotiation, more focus.

Written Screen Agreement

A simple document everyone signs setting when, where, and how much — ending endless daily negotiations.

Values-Based Screen Framing, Not Rules-Based

Instead of counting minutes, ask: "What value do I want my child to live, and is the screen serving or blocking it right now?"

Special Time Named by Your Child

Let your child pick the 15-min special-time activity weekly — his decision start to finish.

Reading Choice Freedom

Let your child read what he loves — comics, magazines, "non-serious" books build a reader.

Relationship with Homework, Not the Homework

Don't sit and solve with your child — sit nearby supporting his relationship with work.

Toddler Choices (RIE)

Offer only two choices for each small decision — respecting his autonomy without losing yours.

Teen Sleep-Hygiene Advocacy

The teen brain needs 8-10 hours of sleep, but early school start and nighttime phone use steal it — a dual intervention.

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