Prep IEP meeting with 3 documents + 5 questions + calm stance — no flare-ups.

Identify the living values you want guiding behavior across ten life domains.

Goals end; values are perpetual direction — confusing them loses you.

Instead of solutions, ask GROW: Goal-Reality-Options-Will — let person craft his solution.

Convert 3 vague goals into Specific-Measurable-Achievable-Relevant-Time-bound.

Turn a vague goal into a specific, measurable, time-bound formulation.

Define one inspiring Objective and 3 numeric Key Results that prove it.

"Max 80 words, don't use 'innovative', start with imperative" beats "make it short and clear".