Don't wait for the team to voluntarily fill the wiki — seed 20 initial pages yourself from real past questions.

"If X happens, I will do Y" — doubles to triples adherence.

Link new habit to existing — "after established X, I'll do new Y".

Any new habit, start with 2-minute version — until established.

Environment shapes habits — redesign it before demanding willpower.

Don't ask "be my mentor" — ask "20 min on specific decision" 6 times until relationship becomes natural.

After a deep talk, ask: "What do I need to ask that I haven't?" — a trust revealer.

Replace the rote "how are you" with "what was the best part of your week?".

A fixed daily time and place for homework — less negotiation, more focus.

Each scroll-urge, execute pre-defined substitute (10 breath cycles, drink water, 5 squats).

Whenever a prompt works exceptionally well, save it immediately with a simple tagging system instead of relying on memory or digging through old chats.

Before asking your child to put their phone away at the table, put yours away first — modeling beats any spoken rule.