One meal/week eaten with all senses — no phone, no talk.

Write 15 min about best version of self in 5 years — you may see self.

Read draft aloud. Every stumble = sentence needing edit.

Repeat the same refusal in the same words calmly, no matter how the other person reshapes the pressure.

Say no in three sentences: thanks, refusal, closing — with no "sorry" or justification.

Memorize one 7-word refusal sentence and rehearse it until it emerges automatically under pressure.

Say "no, I can't" — complete sentence. No explanation, no apology.

Satter's Division of Responsibility: you decide what/when/where, he decides how much and whether to eat.