Imagine a friend in the same situation — what would you tell them? Tell yourself.

Write what your dearest friend would say in your worst moment.

At your funeral in 50 years, what do you wish people said? Start it today.

Dedicate five full days for a focused team to solve one problem at the root — not an hour-a-week meeting for months.

Say firm "no" with warm "I understand" — Janet Lansbury's classic formula.

Offer only two choices for each small decision — respecting his autonomy without losing yours.