Satter's Division of Responsibility: you decide what/when/where, he decides how much and whether to eat.

At your funeral in 50 years, what do you wish people said? Start it today.

In news writing: most important first, important next, extra last — reader gets it even if stops mid-way.

Log every task you do for a full week, then tag: delegable / non-delegable.

A simple document everyone signs setting when, where, and how much — ending endless daily negotiations.

A document signed by all family members (parents included) about screen use rules.

Set 3 zones and 3 times daily as screen-free for the whole family — simpler than complex hour rules.

Every 3 months, sit as a family to review your tech agreement — kids grow and rules must grow with them.

The whole family (parents and children) shares the weekly screen-time report openly — mutual transparency ends the "the rule is just for me" feeling.